I've experienced both sides of the proverbial D/s coin so to speak though my personal experiences have been limited particularly in the past few years. I'm self sufficient and am not interested in striking relationships of any sort with individuals who are in the mad rush to meet their perfect counterbalance. I figure that since I do well on my own terms, and have for some considerable measure of time, I've both earned and reserve the liberty to choose who I get to know and to what level...and hey...knowing even that much in being comfortable with myself, I also know that I have plenty of time to be selective and not just 'settle' in order to add to the general failure rate of relationships.

I enjoy intelligence and wit in general. There are times to be serious and there are times be...well, unserious. Integrity is paramount and everything else, naturally follows suite with that intact.

Don't expect a photograph until you've piqued my interest or vice versa. Take that as you will from a strightforward kind of girl.

And again I say--- that's all for now folks.