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Pan Female Switch, 27,  Montreal, Canada
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I love the art of manipulation. Or seduction as many refer to it. Its like an intricate game of chess. Figuring out how to get the best outcome is a thrill and incredible power high for me. It is my kink "de choix".
I also find it is an art that is slowly disappearing in the BDSM world. Too often you see cases of young Dommes spouting "Gimme, Gimme". These are children, not women. There is no finesse anymore and it makes me sad. With that being said... I am an eccentric woman with an avid fondness for red wine, good java and a good book. Im partial to service subs who love to please and who wish to put a smile on my face all day long. Intelligence is very important to me. I like to be able to hold an interesting conversation with my subs, other than the "Yes, Mistress" "You have lovely feet Mistress". Have a brain. You are useless otherwise, no matter how good of a service sub you are. In my spare time, I enjoy writing kink related theories, stories and reviews. Feel free to take a gander....











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 Female Switch



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 3"






Actively Seeking:

Dominant Male

Submissive Female

Submissive Male

A Poly Household

 Lives For:

 Fine Dining (Expert)

 Shopping (Expert)

 Travel (Expert)

 Female Supremacy



 Coffee Shops  (Expert)

 Running (Beginner)



 Hair Pulling

 Mental Bondage

 Orgasm Denial

 Body Art



 Intellectual Discourse



 Alternative Music




 Art Galleries

 Bar Hopping

 Museums (Beginner)

 Musical Theater (Beginner)



 Corner Time



 Housework Service



 Art Collecting






 1950s Lifestyle

 Lifestyle BDSM


 Blue Grass


 Classical Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 Folk Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave

 Nineties Music



 Punk Rock Music



 Rock Music



 Country Music

 EMO Music

 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music

 Opera Music

 Pop Music

 Seventies Music

 Curious About:






 Show Tunes

 Hard Limits:


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Journal Entries:
11/30/2013 8:53:35 PM

There are moments when I think I found myself and others, where I feel completely lost and bereft. I am not sure of who I am, what I am looking for much less what I need. I THINK I need something in particular, and yet I am not happy with the outcome. 

I thought for the longest time that I wasnt a submissive, that I was a Domme through and through, and yet when I have a submissive partner, I lose all respect for them as a life mate.  I have a craving to be cared for and for rough hard sex. I want control to be taken from me because I know I will not freely give it. I am at war with myself....a walking contradiction.I am constantly fighting with myself.And I hate it.I will not submit to just any Dom who comes around and nor am I satisfied sleeping with a man I can ultimately control.I am at a loss...A deep seated loss. Where does one such as myself go? What do I do? This floating sensation has gotten old and the lack of direction has taken its tole. I wish I could just find myself already. Find that aspect that makes me happy and makes me go "Oh...Im home."

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