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Hey, Im a student at University of Florida, and Id like to take a second (by which I apparently mean a giant wall of text, good grief) to explain the seemingly contradictory info on my profile.
I dont have much experience in kink. Ive gone to plenty of local events, and I even went to the Woodshed once, but Ive never really had a play session. For the most part, Im a sub - I like bondage, impact play, chastity, the works. For some reason, I also happen to be fairly flexible, so any chest harnesses you tie on me are going to have to be pretty darn secure if you dont want me getting out of them. (I like to struggle a bit.) But really, its the headspace that gets me - I want to feel like I belong to you. All through my life, Ive been taught to put stock in my mental faculties above all else. To have them infiltrated and compromised, to be freed from the burden of this vigilance, even for a short time, would be immensely satisfying. In short, I want to submit. Unique, I know.
In fact, I wasnt so sure Id like impact play until I went to the Shed, where I awakened to how nice it felt. I was with two friends at the time, and after being topped by them and seeing them top each other, I realized the other side of the slash might be pretty fun, too. I want to explore that side of me, but I havent had the opportunity to yet, so its anyones guess how good Id be. Its all kind of nebulous, which is why I didnt list myself as a switch, yet put that Im seeking submissive women. Anyone in the area who wants to take a chance on (or, heck, mentor) a complete newbie, feel free to message me.
For that matter, anyone can feel free to message me, though Id appreciate it if you treated me like a fellow human being. Please dont try and sexy-talk me in your first message (yes, this has happened to me) or expect this college student to drop everything and relocate to Alabama (yes, this has also happened to me - Im sure you Alabamans are positively lovely, but I just dont have the means of visiting you). Itd be great if you could, you know, drop me a hello, say why youre interested in me, and generally be an amicable person. I dont bite - unless you beg me to, of course.
Which brings me to a side note, but I take negotiation and consent seriously. Im currently uncomfortable with making kink a 247 thing, and Id like to clearly delineate play from - is there a term for not play? Ordinary life? At any rate, you get the point. I cant just hand you my body and say, Im all yours apropos of nothing. Not without a long relationship of trust. I need to know whats going to happen to me in any given play session.
If youre interested in what Im like outside of kink, Im dual-majoring in Japanese and Computer Science (a combination that will hopefully get me hired somewhere), and Im an active member of UFs anime club. Im kind of a giant, flaming otaku. I watch anime, I play trading card games, I translate stuff, I studied abroad in Japan for a year - theres a lot I could go on about here, but Ill just leave it at that for now. Again, if youre curious about anything, my inbox is always open.
I think thats a fairly decent preliminary look at me. Looking forward to hearing from someone.
If this sentence is still in my profile, it means the image Ive uploaded is outdated, and Im in the process of getting a better and more recent photo of myself.
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