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I am an intelligent, kind, compassionate, firm, only, at most, slightly sadistic Dom, and only when my partner is aroused by it. I am seeking a fem sub to join me on my journey of exploration and who is willing to seek and push boundaries together. I am not looking for a fuck buddy or a one nighter. I am looking for a lover. I looking for a love affair with a BDSM twist.

You appreciate the finer things in life, art, music, the written word, fine dining on occasion, fine wine but are also grounded and not spolied by those things or the quest to obtain them. You understand this Anais Nin quote:

"Oh, God, I know no joy as great as a moment of rushing into a new love, no ecstasy like that of a new love. I swim in the sky; I float; my body is full of flowers, flowers with fingers giving me acute, acute caresses, sparks, jewels, quivers of joy, dizziness, such dizziness. Music inside of one, drunkenness. Only closing the eyes and remembering, and the hunger, the hunger for more, more, the great hunger, the voracious hunger, and thirst." May 30, 1934 . I want to feel that with you. I am looking for a submissive woman who possesses that special combination of intelligence, beauty, sexiness, kinkiness, sweetness and fun.

I want us to together experience the power, exhilaration and sensuousness of being lovers. I am interested in experimenting with many aspects of the lifestyle with the right person. I love women and I love making love with the right partner.

You must be committed and willing to keep this relationship permanently discreet. I must trust you completely just as you will have to trust me. I expect to earn both your respect and your submission.

My Ideal Person (who and what I'm looking for):

Intelligent, sexy, kinky, pretty and fun. Prepared to submit and surrender control. But only to the right man, not just to any man. When we are together I want your knees to go weak, your heart to beat faster and your senses to heighten, at the thought of what you know is coming. With a word, a glance, a touch we will both know; I will control you and you will love every minute.

Together we will explore every part of our sensuality, drawing out from our deepest recesses that which brings us the most intense arousal, pleasure, pain (if you wish), fear, excitement, satisfaction and release.

We will follow mild protocols. When you do submit and surrender to me you will address me as Sir or Master but only because you "feel" it, not because it is "demanded". Not for some egomanical reason but to symbolize the transfer of power and the transition into our roles. When we begin a session together we will have our own special ritual signaling the beginning and the end. You will agree to adhere to my other rules as well (don't worry, they are enjoyable).

You have to tolerate my lack of being readily available and accept this relationship for what is will be, part time, sporadic and sometimes spontaneous. But at the same time, genuine, important, serious, intense and very real.

You should be intelligent, preferably well educated but I will consider a strong woman with life's intellect. I like subs who are at least moderately successful in their daily lives and just happen to enjoy being a submissive lover during play. I want someone with whom I can communicate well and build a relationship, albeit an unconventional one, which can "endure" over time. I'm looking for an unconventional partner to play with but one for whom I can care for deeply.

I want to leave our meetings aching for the next time we're together. I want to long to feel your hair, you hands, your body. I want to remember your smell and your taste and thrill to the sound of your voice. I want you to feel the same way about me.

damnImgood1
 
 Age: 30
 Kent, Ohio