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I wish to indulge myself, and share a few thoughts upon the lifestyle, as I see it. 

First and foremost, a true Dominant is the servant of any D/s relationship. He tends to submissive's needs,  without appearing to be serving his submissive. Exploration and cultivation of the submissive's inner needs, are the responsibility of her Dominant.
A submissive has an inherent need to serve, to be of use, and quite likely, to be used.  As with any other honorable pursuit, these traits can be exploited by a dishonorable individual. Allowing one's submissive to take joy in their service to their Dominant, also promotes a Dominant's happiness, as well as taking happiness in their submissive's service.
Dominants do not control their subs, and submissives do not submit to their Dominants.  A submissive's lifestyle choice, is that one of reflection of their own desires.
GoddessKat
 
 Age: 31
  Oklahoma