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Le Comte' deChateau d'If
& his littleone, anastasie.



M/s Couple, Male/female, seek a trainee for a beta position within our leather family.
Need not be live in(That is a future option).
Willingness to try a different approach to M/s ,D/s relationships. Primary relationship will always come first, but a welcome beta will enjoy the dymanic of our family.

He is an experienced Trainer , Dominant and Master. she is a capable sub with varried switch tendencies. Both have many years experience, He 18, she 13+ in the D/s,M/s, BDSM life. We are not weekend players, and do not see being cruel for cruels sake an option. This is a real, daily part of our lives.

We attend mutiple events a year and the proper applicant would be welcome to attend with the Master and alpha these events.

We are active in the community in Washington & Baltimore. Both have presented locally and at National/Regional events.
This is not a search for a second sex partner for eather, but a real offer to be part of a true leather family and , in time a true poly relationship. The successful applicant must be intellegent and able to contribute to their training and enrich the entire experience.

There will be discussion, a training agreement and upon successful completion of the training, an offer to join U/us in a permant situation.

family, Job come first, so we do not expect everything from the proper applicant to center around the house. We do expect a open and expanded mind for the lessons and training W/we offer. A positive atitude is required. A willingness to try what we teach is required. The willingness to have fun is required.
Being a doormat is not expected or accepted.

Applicants will be considered on their individual merits and what they bring to the table. We have no set idea as to what you shoud be, look like or your experience. Only that we live by the code of Honor, Duty and Civility.

We do not tolerate liars and those who have a hidden agenda.
If you are looking for just a boyfriend or girlfriend, have no life interests outside BDSM or are looking to valadate yourself through M/s,D/s, we are not for you.Waste not your time or ours. But if you seek a true M/s,D/s relationship with care,love and understanding, we await your response.

Please, no freeloaders, unemployable or destitute persons need apply. While you may have children or a S/O, our`home is not child proofed. If you have an S/o, they must understand the M/s dynamic and your will to serve under the house of Lemontecristo.


I am a Gentleman of education and not a "Weekend Warrior" , but rather a trained and experienced Dominant, with ties extending beyond the Baltimore-Washington, D.C. area. With many years of crafting a body of experience, W/we offer the selected few an experience beyond what most experience from random encounters through the club scene or organizations such as TES, BESS, BR or APEX.
W/we offer a healthy body, mind and spirit.W/we expect the same in return. Additionally, the select few should have more than just an idea of what the lifestyle is about from books commonly offered as the "guides" to the scene. Expect to be treated well, trained with vigor and to experience a type of Dominant ~ submissive dynamic which is sorely lacking in much of the community. A realistic understanding of the true value of a cherished submissive and the rewards that will be bestowed upon the few who come unto U/us with an open mind and willing soul seeking that rare prize, a true TPE. Your submission will be rewarded with the proper use and treatment of which you have been lacking in your life from lesser M/s- Poly Relationships.

O/our life experience dictates what W/we are willing and able to provide. W/w are beyond petty drama, so W/we ask that you leave that at the door.W/we prefer, ( actually demand) a thinking submissive, someone who can contribute to her experiences and situation with proper feedback and insight. Players, wanna-be’s and "Do-Me Queens" need not apply. W/we are critiqued by others as unbending in Our manner of M/s, but it is a proven method, and needs only for the chosen few to willingly apply the lessons offered. That which others do not or choose not to understand, or accept, in this quest to be accepted in the community perplex Us.

Acceptance of our differences is the rock on which </s is built upon. So why is it that a different style of achieving the same result meets with disdain and resistance? Because it IS so different. Loving, Caring, Strict, without cruelty for cruelty's sake. Mistakes are met with correction. Disobedience is met with punishment. However, Correct service and behavior is rewarded, perhaps beyond your unimagined expectations.

Come unto Us.

The structure We creates is a constant undercurrent of the M/s life, a sharp intellect, a exceptional mind and caring heart. In return We expect truth. Always. For the truth will always allow your slave/submissive heart on the correct path.
When you choose to contact Us, Be honest, open and without the intent to deceive. Not into the one time wonders, as it takes more than a day or a 2 to find the niche where we fit together. This can be the beginning of a lasting situation. We are not adverse to an LTR if the right lady presents herself. The ultimate quest is for persons who seek a true and total power exchange.

Le Count de Chateau D'if`& little anastasie

2/9/2007 3:09:54 PM
People, I believe , have good intentions.  Well, most of them. The difficulty comes when they themselves do not actually know what is inside that 3 pounds of tissue we call a brain. With all the potential in the world, most of us are viewed as short circuted. Some even believe that we who practice this art are not wired differently, but make a choice to do what we do. These are the same people that will tell you that being gay is a choice for all and not a state of being.
With all good will and intentions, it is possible to overlook the simple fact that some people are just basicly flawed beyond ones ability to care and nurture them. Some of these people are hell bent on tearing down and destroying the very things that are good and right in their lives. Those things and persons who come unto them with an open mind , arms and heart. 
Feelings get scorched, trust gets dented, and extreme caution replaces the unquestioning trust that was offered at the outset. In a D/s relationship, these pitfalls are hard, very hhard to overcome, once the damage has been inflicted. All the love and caring in the world will not make the scarring go away. The trust has to be reestablished. The caution and fear of the repeating of the destructive behavior has to be overcome. The feelings , well the feelings are always the easiest to heal.
So, I leave you with this. If those of you with the gift of submission to offer, do not offer it haphazzardly. Those of you who are offered this great gift, take a moment or two, and question the gift giver their true feelings and motives for choosing you as the recipient of this very valuable gift.

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10/8/2006 9:05:20 AM

Well, well. Again taken in by someone who presented as somthing they are not. Time wasted on a person with all good intentions, but a lacking of understanding of what was written.
I understand finding one's self. I too, had to resort to self exile for nearly a year in order to extract the deamons from their caves and hiding places. It was difficult, but in all that time, I never ceased to be what I presented myself to be. I declined to interact on that level. I am back at, or perhaps it is better to say that I am beyond the lever I was at prior. I am better for the trials and proved the axiom: 
You can not go over, around or under adversity. You must face it head-on and pass through it with all intentions of prevaling. With faith in yourself and perservance, you will emerge from the far side, better for it. Tempered and stronger, much like a sabre that has been tempered by the fires of the furnace." 

8/16/2006 1:54:47 PM
Well, here it is the end of August, and still, the weekend warriors are claiming to be the true lifestyle players. More and more are showing up at the professional conventions, mostly to gawk and drool over the actual professionals in the scene. Those of us that are not professionals , but profesional in the scene and not wanna be's are tired of "masters" and "slaves" cluttering up the life with their ignorance of the protocal. From Friday night till sunday afternoon, a lot of "bad" play for others to "ohh" and "aahh" at but no real understanding of the theroys of actually being a Dominant or submissive full time in your mind and deeds.

any answeres from other Dominants and submissives who actuall live thiws lifestyle as a part of who they are?
4/13/2006 8:56:26 PM
So tell me why there are so many people claiming to be looking for Dominant/submissive relationships and then have all the excuses in the world why they can't /will not communicate with another person regarding their published profiles. Truth, Honor. Do they no longer exist in the community?
Soigne
 
 Age: 33
 Dallas, Texas