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MrsEvilTease
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| Update!!!! See journal entry.
We are looking for a cuckold type relationship for her and a female sub for both to train and or play with on a regular basis. This can include, but is not limited to, applicants that are already a sub/sub couple relationship.
Expect more than the bdsm porn fantasy of being used then sent on your merry way with this married Dom/Domme couple. We WANT to get to know you! Who you are, what you want in life, what makes you tick, and not just what you would like to experience in the scene. We're only interested in those that are a whole package. Vanilla and kinky perversions combined. Our interest is in people who can function outside the home in the normal world as friends. (We really mean this folks! A casual relationship with one or the other of us isn't out of the question but we'd like a little more than the spank and go thing here too.) We're discreet when out in the 'nilla realm and we'd hope you will be too. This doesn't mean that we have or expect others to have a an on and off switch. But much can be said out in the 'nilla world with a look or a softly spoken phrase. Then when we're behind closed doors mmmm baby...our sub(s) turn into dirty, needy, cared for and pleasing bound fuck toys. We are not Barbie and Ken types...she's a very beautiful bbw with very long dark hair and killer blue eyes. He is a tall scrumptous guy, tiger eyed and dirty blonde with a few extra pounds as well. Both the wife and hubs enjoy a woman "with meat on her bones" and the wife enjoys many body types in men.
We're both are very laid back, witty and have wicked sense of humors. We both smoke and we do drink socially. We enjoy cooking out, swimming, love, love, love horror movies, time outdoors, and much more. Hubs is an avid hunter, for you guys that enjoy hitting the woods in season for some guy time, he's pretty open for a hunting buddy. The wife is a soft hearted woman and a fantastic listener. She's very open to having girly girl time with the ladies. It's not all about the kink with either of us.
What we'd like to find in those we develop relationships with:
The cuckold male should be interested in or at the very least tolerate a low to moderate amount of pain as well as being very service oriented. Sexual service while being denied at her pleasure boys is what she means here. Also service in other areas in and outside of the home is open if the applicant is so inclined. She enjoys many aspects of the lifestyle but isn't into the extreme side of things. She has educated herself in the lifestyle and understands the mentality behind the need to submit. She is a sweet natured evil woman. Meaning, she is kind and real but more than able to loose the demanding demon woman of your nightmares and fantasies. Cuckold means cuckold boys! You'll most likely never get the chance to fuck her. Or at the very least only when she so desires. Get it? Cuckold....look it up.
The female sub/slave should be interested in or at least tolerate a low to moderate amount of pain as well. Service activities (sexual and domestic) are also a part of the program. Both are into mixing the pain with pleasure and will delight in forcing orgasm after orgasm on your bound form. Then bringing you back down from the clouds in a understanding and tender way. Have no doubt...you will be used thoroughly. But you won't be treated as a piece of meat to be thrown aside once you've served your purpose.
Like most things in the lifestyle, one persons opinion on what a "label" describes differs from the next. We're completely open to discussing and even negotiating the terms of our relationships with whomever we decide to interact with.
Her favorite things activity wise in the lifestyle:
Full body worship, foot worship, rimming, on demand oral, tease and denial, orgasm control, chastity (under the right circumstances), CBT, impact play (paddles, belts, floggers, etc), bondage, collars and leashes, blindfolds, gags, ass play giving and receiving, dildo's vibes etc, face slapping, humiliation, mental bondage, and on and on.
His favorite things activity wise in the lifestyle:
Cock worship, face slapping, forced orgasms, bondage, spanking, tease and denial, NT, breast play, blindfolds, ass play giving, variety of toys, hair pulling, and more!
We're not looking for a maid or housekeeper. However, the idea and possibilities for those who both enjoy service (sexual and domestic) mixed in with some humiliation and/or kink play at the same time would prosper very well in a relationship with us. This could lead to a possible part time live in situation with the right person(s). Yes, we are both rather new to the lifestyle and do not have much experience. Though we'd really like to change that...lol. We offer a sane, solid, fun and demanding home to those whom we decide to include. Like many in our lifestyle...we're normal folks. We just have some kinky dark places in us. We have full and busy lives but we can't and won't deny ourselves our cravings any longer. Keep this in mind when it comes to setting up a meet for dinner or such. It may take a week to schedule things...the joys of parenthood.
We're happy to exchange face pics on an alt email address. We are on the Y under the same sn. We can and expect to voice verify. A couple of face to face meets in a public setting with both of us present will be expected before any type of play takes place. We're also listed under the same sn on www.swinglifestyle.com and www.swingular.com and "FL"
SSC only!!!!! Limits will be respected and expected.
Boys...the hubs is not bi nor does he have bi tendencies or even curiosities...if bi is something you cannot live without we're not the Dom couple for you. Ladies, the wife has had bi experiences in the past and is completely open to expanding on those experiences.
If you're interested or have questions message here or on the Y and we'll be sure to respond.
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An update of sorts from us to you.
We are continuing to seek submissives of our own. I, the wife, have been talking with a couple of different males that may or may not pan out. There will be face to face meets scheduled with each over the next two weeks.
The search for a female submissive for my husband continues to be a challenge. I find it mind boggling that so many females do not answer emails from dominant men. I wonder if all male dominants experience this as well. I get that a woman doesn't want or respond well to the "on your knees slut" emails. Which the Mr doesn't send in the first place. But what do you girls respond to exactly?
I'm cunfuzzled.
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Funny thing....while standing at the counter to pay for clothes today I was looking down into the display case. You know the one ladies....that case there tempting you with the pretty baubles to accessorize your newly purchased clothing. Well, while looking down into said case I came to realize just how much my mind tends to turn to bdsm. I turned to my husband and said one word as I pointed to the necklace enclosed in the glass.
"Collar."
Happy New Year!!!!
Mrs. |
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While I certainly know and understand that finding the individual submissives my husband and I seek is never going to be an easy endeavor. And yes, such is true for everyone serious person on this site. We certainly are not the only ones who are having a hell of a time finding the yeng to our yang. Even knowing all that it is still frustrating to seek, to put ourselves out there, to try to actually get to know people and then have it go no where. Our search is even more impacted due to the fact that we are poly. So many want and need a one on one relationship. Having their partner to themselves. And I say that is perfectly fine. We all have our own needs, abilities, desires, and wants. But really, truley, I ask that if getting involved in a poly relationship doesn't hold ANY interest for you then kindly say so and not ask us to spend hours of our time talking about things that YOU know will never lead to anything.
Perhaps it is past time that we try to find a paid membership BDSM site. One that is not so full of those who find this free site by accident. That actually use it for more than to get their jollies off in their little rooms with no intention or real desire to actually have an in person relationship. If any of you LIFESTYLERS know of a good paid membership site that is both reputable and have had results for yourselves from.....please for the love of all that is holy.... drop us a line and share that web address. |
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Our time with the young lady we've been seeing has come to an end where a D/s dynamic is concerned. Quite simply, she needed more than we were able to give. Great girl. Fun, intelligent, witty, and sweet. A friend to keep for sure.
We wish you the very best in everything sweet one.
Mr. and Mrs. |
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I had a wonderful time with Our girl Monday night. she and I were able to have more than one new pleasureable experience together One on one. It was O/our first time alone with my wife's full consent and blessing of what would or could happen. My wife was very supportive and understanding that this time needed to take place. she and I had a very good talk about a lot of things. I felt that W/we connected on a deeper level than W/we have in the past. I was able to get a better understanding of her thoughts, fears, and feelings about not only being in a poly relationship but her fears and needs as a woman. W/we were able to get a lot of things out in the open. I felt that I was able to better understand what she was feeling, thinking and needing from not only myself but from Us by the end of the night.
Mr.
Late Tuesday evening after a wonderful dinner with My wife's potential Our girl and the two of us were able to sit down with her and discuss some the issues brought to light in O/our conversation and time spent together Monday night. I hope We were able to convey to her just how much she means to the two of Us. That she is not only wanted but truly needed because of who she is. I feel W/we all now have a better understanding of each others thoughts and where we all are coming from. O/our needs. O/our wants. O/our fears. But, even more precisely We are better aware of hers. Which We both value beyond explanation. Now, My hope is that with time W/we're all able to be on the same page when it comes to what W/we each are feeling, and needing from our relationship with O/one another. Which, I have to admit that I feel We were not quite getting in respect to her before my talk with her Monday night and Our talk with her Tuesday night. This is to be expected from time to time and I/We are grateful that We are involved with a woman who willing to do the hard work of understanding herself even when it's hard to do so.
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I / We have been missing our girl since the other night when we just sat around and had a good talk. I hope to see her on monday after work to just hang out and watch a movie with her and talk some more.We enjoy haveing her around and haveing fun together. One of the things I / We love about her is that she is very open and honest about every thing that is going on with us and in her life. |
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A month has passed since we have placed our girl under consideration. A month filled with time together, hours of talking, and also some wonderful times spent in the fun kinky things as well. For me, the Mrs, it's been time spent getting to know her better. And I am truly enjoying all that I am learning about her. I feel she and I are more than simply Domme and submissive. I am experiencing feelings of affection toward her. A happiness knowing that she's simply going to be here regardless of if there will be any play involved or not.
I am liking having more than just a play relationship with another. I find it is exactly what we had hoped to find with the female we brought into our home. And bless her, she has been a patient girl. Building a poly relationship has it's obstacles to say the least. I can not say how much I appreciate how she has been able to be both open and understanding in allowing us both to work and feel our way along this progression with her.
Being new to both D/s and being in and building a poly relationship has been exciting, challenging and fulfilling for me. I still have so very much to learn. But then I'm of the belief that no matter how much you may know there is always more to learn. More to learn about the how, the why in not only myself but in others. I am excited and happy about how everything is now with our girl. And I am oh so very much looking forward to how our relationship will grow with her. |
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We are happy to say that we have put our girl under formal consideration this weekend. MR. |
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We've been spending quite a bit of time with our girl lately. This girl fits in with us so well it's almost like a dream.
The Mrs. |
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We met again with our potential girl last night. It's wonderful that she lives so close by that actually meeting and being able to spend time with her is not a pain in the ass trying to coordinate. Things are going swimmingly. Grin. Talk, swimming, dinner, and more talk. So nice not to feel like we're being handed a script. We can actually totally be ourselves with her. Some of you guys could learn a thing or two from this girl. Slow down, breathe, talk, communicate!!! Back to the lovely, soooooo many good thoughts, feelings, and wonderfully naughty things going on this Mrs. mind today. To say that our relationship with her is progressing nicely is putting it lightly. Mmm...easy now Mrs. |
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We had a lovely time visiting with our new potential girl. Some surprises but nothing horrible. Smiles. Her energy, intellect, and wonderful playful nature are like a breath of fresh air amongst all the slight of hand crap we've come across with so many others so far. For being on the opposite ends of the whip, so to speak, she and I are amazingly alike in a number of ways. she and I had a very open and honest conversation yesterday. Sigh....love it! lol
The Mrs. |
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We met up with a young, experienced, female submissive yesterday for a first face to face meet. She's also into and interested in building a poly relationship as well. Oh boy!!! Beautiful girl, smart, great sense of humor, and a wonderful understanding and mindset about life and the lifestyle too. So many good things to say and thoughts going on now.
We also had a very nice face to face with a newbie male submissive about a week ago. Very polite and shy. Some educating is in order with this one though. But that is perfectly fine. There's more than the whips and giggles involved in this type of relationship. Sometimes being a teacher is an integral part of the list of responsibilities of being another persons dominant. I/We welcome the challenge.
I've also been talking with another male submissive cuckold who is both experiened and has lived that role in a devoted relationship. I'm excited to continue to learn more about this boy and moving along to a face to face meet with him soon.
Hopeful and eyes wide open.
The Mrs. |
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Hello out there in netland......
An update long past due. The cuck we mentioned having under consideration in a previous journal entry is now just a good friend. Great guy, willing and sweet. But the distance and schedules just didn't line up and left this Lady feeling frustrated. him too I'm sure. :) So, we've left it as friends and hopefully no hard feelings.
Sometimes, if it doesn't work, it just doesn't work. I bid him the VERY best of luck in his search for his special One!
The Mrs.
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Busy weekend with family visiting. To those who have messaged us...hold tight! We'll be answering emails tuesday the 12th.
Until then .......
The Mr and Mrs |
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Some info that is important to know about us and our preferences.
- If you are married or in a relationship.....We expect your sig other to talk and or meet with us too. No exceptions. We've heard every line there is including.....
"She/he knows and is ok with it but doesn't want to know anything about it."
Translation....She/he has no clue about this desire of mine. Or maybe she/he does and thinks I'm a freak. I have to be super quiet about this and I'm going to say anything to get you to play with me. Pretty please!!!!
Not going to happen. Period.
- We expect regular contact from you. Not all day long conversations. But if you're interested in one or both of us you should show it. We will.
- If we say no, then no it is. We respect when someone says the same to us. Don't be pushy or a child.
- We're serious!!!! We voice verify and we meet with those we're interested in. Be sure you are ready for doing just that as well.
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It's summertime!!!!
Finally, it's warm and or hot depending on the day. Thank god for summer and swimming pools. lol
We're still very much looking to find a lady to add to our mix here.
We're looking for you darlin! |
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I'm shocked at the number of women who don't respond to messages here. Though from what I've read onsite this is something many have bitched about. A polite, mostly grammatically and spelled correct message is totally ignored. No "no thanks", no "hell the fuck no" just nothing. We personally try to answer every message we recv. I'm sure some get missed here and there and some get answered a few days after being read but still, really? Deep sigh, women!
The Mrs. |
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We joined the FL site last night on the recommendation of a cuck we have under consideration.  Get the feeling we're searching high and low still yet for all we desire? lol
The male submissive/cuck we've been talking with seems like (dare I say it) a perfect match for us. He and the husband have become fast friends. And I, the wife, am most eager to get at him.  He's fun, witty, respectful, quick, and a pretty cool guy. We're very much looking forward to our second "date" with him this weekend.
The husband did mention something I found pretty interesting the other night. Our having more than one of each.  Big ol evil grins!!!
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FYI for those interested.
We do try to sit down together and go over messages we receive before responding. Although sometimes one or the other of us will respond and fill the other in afterward. That being said we'd like to let all know who have messaged or may message that we're not ignoring anyone or that we're not interested, life can get hectic at times and we may take a day or at the most two to respond to messages.
In other words, we usually respond to all messeges received but we're probably not going to respond favorably to those sending asinine messages about wanting to be whipped and all that garbage. We're looking for select people to train and or play with, not to live an online fantasy life of nothing but talk.
Communication is key in the type of relationships we are seeking here on Collar Me. We expect that those interested in relationships with us to not only be able to communicate effectively but also to do so regularly.
Repeated excuses that you can't talk on the phone sends up red flags. If we get a few too many red flags we're going to figure there is something off and decide to not pursue contact or anything else with the one sending up the mixed signals.
If someone is interested, show it. If you have nothing to hide and are true in all you say, prove it. We will certainly do the same. |
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MWC with kids looking for a cuckold for her and a female sub/slave for both....Check out our profile!!! |
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