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I'm looking for a relationship. I've been trying really good dating sites, but it would be nice to date someone who has tried BDSM before. Every girl I've dated loved it, but since they were new to it I haven't gotten any better at being a top and I haven't had any exceptional experiences being a bottom. Since I've been developing my profile on a dating site for a year, I'm going to copy it to give a really good idea of who I am.
I use my head over emotions but not when emotions should be at the
front like in relationships or watching movies and such. I am not
afraid to cry during movies but I could still disarm a mugger with
a knife. I try to stay humble but am not shy, start relationships
with trust until the trust is lost, try not to lie unless asked to
keep a secret, I speak my mind but word delicate situations the
best I can, I'm not into sports at all but I strangely have a high
aptitude for them, I love cuddling while sleeping, especially
after sex, and when in love all I have to do is think about them
and it puts a smile on my face. I am trusting and caring to a
fault, almost every time I get the chance.
In my free time I tend to play
cards games and
computer games, go to the
local nerd shop, hang out with friends, or spend time online trying
to improve my lifestyle and make new friends.
I haven't had a real relationship since summer 08. I'm not even
sure if I had a relationship in 09 period. My... connections? I've
had with people haven't been very clear or long lasting because of
extenuating circumstances.
What I’m doing with my life
I work for Schmidt Landscaping where I make very good money and
have a day to day flexible schedule. He lets me know Every time I
work what day I will work next and I can always cancel at any time.
It's a great paying job, I love the work, and I can balance work
vs. time off however I like, although I rarely turn him down as I
don't really have anything more important than work to do most of
the time.
Once I get my life together (probably fall) I'm going to try to get
into a college (Cincinnati State? UC? ITT?) for something having to
do with computers.
I’m really good at
Statistically driven things and martial arts are my strong points,
but I never get in fights because I never let my ego get in the way
of anything. The only reason I ever get in the way is to protect.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably either that I have a bad sense of style or that I'm honest
no matter what. Period. If you ask me anything and I was not told
to keep it a secret, I will tell you even if it gets me in trouble.
I'm very abrupt and outward. I don't have a mean streak or
anything, but if you ask me something or I don't like something I
will tell you how it is. Being nice slows everyone down. If you
speak your mind you can settle your differences and find
compromising ground. If you are quiet and sweeten things up they
will fester and turn sour. Being an ass today for a better us
tomorrow.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Books:
The legend of Drizzt,
The Cleric
Quintet,
The
Sellswords Trilogy,
Harry Potter,
Where the Red Fern
Grows,
Artemis Fowl and
DC comics especially
Batman and
Justice League
Movies:
Across the Universe,
Monty
Python and the Holy
Grail,
Vanilla
Sky,
Amélie,
The Lost Room,
Fight Club,
Catch Me
if You Can,
Ocean's Elven Twelve and
Thirteen.
Music: I'm in love with all types of music, and I don't mean
"except (insert all major genres except one here)" like most people
do. I like Hip hop. I like bluegrass. I like orchestra. I like
techno. There are no genres I am discriminatory against. My
favorite genre right now is upbeat acoustic rock. I'm not sure what
that is officially called, But I am usually listening to songs like
Banana Pancakes and Creep-Acoustic solo.
http://www.playlist.com/playlist/12209434891
The six things I could never do without
Someone to hug, people to love, my sister Sarah, card games, comic
books and the ability to communicate.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Card games, finding a place and planning my future. I would like a
relationship but I'm not dependent on having one. I would love to
be in a relationship and falling in love would be amazing. A common
thing for people to say is that you can't love someone until you
are complete alone. My friend Olivia says that to me sometimes
because I'm so adamant in my want for a relationship, which sounds
wise but if being complete by yourself would make you less caring
about relationships and is also the only way to have true love, no
one would ever want it when they had the capacity for it. Therefore
there would be no love in the world. Stupid philosophical
analytical lines of thought such as these are what fill my head
everyday.
On a typical Friday night I am
Cooling down after work, usually at Yottaquest playing in their
weekly Friday Night Magic tournament. I'm a dork.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
I have no private things. I let everyone know everything except
secrets others asked me to keep and always tell the truth except
for secrets.
Things people wouldn't normally admit to the general public: I'm an
orphan (since ten years old), I temporarily sleep in my sister's
basement(got a crack dealer and a prostitute as room mates. I never
was involved in those sort of activities, but it ruined this past
year anyway), I cry while watching movies, I'm a dork, I like BDSM
(Top/Switch), and I do some things
considered childish by the majority of the population such as play
card games and read comic books.
You should message me if
You like smart guys who are socially accepted geeks.
I am
looking for a one on one with a girl right now but I am open to
things like trinogamy.
Oh and my screen name is drizzt893 or drizztdourden893 or drizzt394
on everything(Drizzt893 most the time. The other two if it's my
second account). I'm the only one with those names so put that in
google and you have a couple pages of me!
I also only hang with people that I can get to in an hour or less.
Not too big on the long distance thing.
