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Updated on the 13th of June 2020

I HAVE A BFDOM AND AM NOT LOOKING FOR ANYONE HERE. Now that thats been covered

Who I am in everyday life
I am a happy girl who likes to watch movies, hang out with my friends and play board games. I am interested in psychology and history at a hobby level.

On weekdays I study. I always put my soul into what I do and always do my best, whether it is for work, to be submissive, to school or whatever I put myself into, I want to be my best self. In my everyday life I have a leading and submissive side depending on what situation I am in, if I feel safe I can easily take on a leadership role if there is one missing in the situation, but in other contexts I like to let others take that role and keep myself in the background.


Who I am as submissive
I love the feeling of giving up control to someone else because I am in control of so much else in my life and therefore I love being a submissive. I have been active in the bdsm world since 2018 and became interesteddid research the year before. Since then I have come a long way and feel much more secure in my role and my identity in the bdsm world, but there is still a lot I want to try. One can never develop enough neither in bdsm nor in ones personal development in addition to bdsm. I follow the motto you never know what you think of something until you try it, I am curious type of person.

For me, mental domination is the most important thing, sex is a bonus. I want to feel submissive, I want the dominant to have both feet on the ground and feel secure in his role as a Dom. I want to let go of the control and just get caught up in the feeling of being dominated. Getting into sub-space is among the best feelings there is. Aftercare is super important to me, I want to feel the closeness and security in the relationship with a Dom (security is of course very important for me to feel in a session as well. I wouldnt hand myself over to someone I didnt trust).


What am I looking for here?
Interesting conversations, discussions, sharing experiences and knowledge.


Good to know about me
- If you cant respect that I am equal to everyone other than the Dom who controls me, do not contact me. I am no less of a person than someone you know or yourself for that matter and I definitely have no less personality.

- If I go to your profile and dont send a message to you, it doesnt necessarily mean that I dont want to talk to you, I am just not looking for anyone now.

- I am a sober hypnoholic. That is, I am addicted to hypnosis but dont practice it anymore due to my addiction. So please keep that in mind. If you abuse that I will block you.
sweet2beat
 
 Age: 24
 Zamboanga city, Philippines