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	I am a 51 year old submissive. I have been in the lifestyle a little over 2 years now. I am a kind and caring woman with a heart and desire to serve. I am looking for a True Master/Daddy Dom to care for his babygirl. I lean more to being a sensous woman more than a pain slut, but who knows with the right Dom? I seek a LTR that leads to a 24/7 .. at least that is my dream. I have learned in my 2 years that this life choice is all about dynamics and relationship. Those who think it is only about kinky sex, should go back and get a little more education. Sex is only a small part of a D/s relationship. There is so much more to this than sexual satisfaction. The most important thing i have learned is that trust, honesty, honor and integrity are the major parts of what one should seek both in a Dom and a sub/slave. Without those, there is nothing. So, for all those who are looking for only kinky sex, your married or looking for a bi sub, I appreciate your time, but I am not the one for you. I am serious about this life choice, I know who I am and what I am and I am quite happy in that. For all the serious and true Doms, I look forward to getting to know you. I want to be honest about this. getting to know someone means knowing the from the inside out. If you want to know who I am and what makes me who I am then please feel free to ask. If you want to know what sex toys I like and positions ...before you know the rest of me, we wont have much to talk about Get to know me for me. I am intellegent and witty. I am a published author, and hold a full time job. The Dom I seek will also be stable in his life, both outside the lifestyle and in. He should have a stable job and stable finances. I work very hard, and I expect nothing less from my partner. I wish all here the very best in thier Journey Kathryn

4/20/2006 11:05:01 PM

does anyone out there want something more than just kinky sex? Is any one looking for a sincere relationship based on freindship first, then respect followed by love and committment... and then have unbelievable sex added to that? Seems no one wants to talk about relationship, they just want to talk about sex. Sex is not who I am.... Its only a small part of who I am. I am a deep river of desires, hopes fears and dreams. I have many talents...sex not being the most important of those. HELLO!!! Is any one out there that whats more than just physical satisfaction?

3/26/2006 5:39:55 AM

I have decised that maybe I am just way to nice or something. I put myself out there, I try to be honest and open, but sitll no on seems to be really interested. One has to think maybe its my views on the sexual side of D/s. I know that many people think that is all this life style is about. "kinky sex" The bdsm is the kinky part...... the D/s is the relationship part..... and relationship and trust and respect have to come before anything kinky can. That is part of being safe sane and consentual. Why would I let any one flog me? or do wax play on me.... or any other form of kink.....with knowing them up front and personal and knowing that I could trust them with my life and my well being. Seems most want to put the cart before the horse so to speak..... its very discouraging. The two have to blend together to make a good relatonship...... but with no foundation.... it is doomed to failure, why dont so many get this?

3/20/2006 3:54:30 PM

I will never understand why Doms put profiles on here with no imformation about themselves, no pictures, giving us no reason to wish to contact them. Is it because they dont know what they want, so they have no idea what to say? I dont get it. True subs as myself, wont usually bother with those Doms, we look at the ones that are confident in what they want and who they are looking for. Just my thought for the day...... guys,,,information.... and pictures..... get you so much further in my view.