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Hetero Male Dominant, 67,  Ferndale, United Kingdom
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Welcome to My profile it might be a bit long but it explains a lot about who I am.

Welcome to My profile it might be a bit long but it explains a lot about whom I am & what I seek in life. My name is Ray I am a Male Dominant, I have been for 20 years, I have become more of a Sadistic Dominant in the last 5 years, I am divorced & have 5 grown up children the youngest being 26, they are a big part of My life and will always be that. I grew up in and lived in Bridgend then a few years later after My divorce, My job moved Me to the Midlands area in 1998, I then moved back to Wales in 2010. I now reside in the lovely Rhondda Valleys, I am a Man of many different trades, I used to be a panel beater and sprayer I now make BDSM items like crosses, paddles, spanking bench there are photos on My profile if interested in having any of the items shown made please get in touch with Me on here. I am strict when required & I might be a ESB (Evil Sadistic Bastard) but I also do cuddles & I always make sure My property or play partner consents to all I do with them. I can be Your worse nightmare if that is what You seek as I do not have any limits Myself unless You count the sane ones (No scat, No animals, No under-age sex) In the past I have collared & owned 3 slaves & 3 submissves. 2 of the slaves where kajira (Gorean slave-girls). I can be polyamorous and have been in my past, I do seek my "soulmate" but she may be difficult to find. So untill I do I may want more than one girl in My life. I can not be doing with slaves/subs that are jealous of each other, though it might be fun to see two naked girls fight in mud grins. **Like I have just said I am seeking females to be in My life age & looks not that important I seek openness, honesty & trust, single mothers welcome. you do not need to be a pain slut, you don't have to be a trained slave/sub, you could be a newbie or a female whom maybe seeks an older Man in their life.
I am able to travel & accommodate as well.** My Dominance contains most if not all of these things. *Having a naked girls knelt at My feet.
*My cock sucked nice & deep.
*Knife play.
*Edge play.
*Single tails.
*Electric play (violet wand & e-stim) .
*Breath play.
*Needles & Staples.
*Proper after-care.
*Cuddles after play & just because I can.
*Kidnap scenarios.
*Rape scenarios.
*Branding. (Check profile for brand I did on talena).
*Cutting (Both surface & permanent check profile for photos of work already done). Events I can be found at:-
*Sunday Something.
*Cardiff munch.
*Swansea Party *And other Venues. My interests are varied I write poems, enjoy reading, (A few of the authors whose books I enjoy reading are Terry Paratchet, Ann Mcaffe). If there is anything that you wish to ask Me or wish to know please get in touch I don't bite unless I really feel it is warranted or asked too.
Below is a sample of my poetry.


There is one way to give me pause

often from my chosen course

Sit me down among the women,

fair of face and shapely form.

Give to some hot rum toddy.

and let me see that lusted body.

Watch my demeanor change from meaner

to cheerful and leaner.

Breath now in short pants.

As the strokes get quicker.

when the waiting quim does quiver.

as the cum is thicker

Bringing me to that bodily ecstasy

where I can forget the river of my misery.

enjoy of difference twix the sexes

what is therethat's better

is it on helter-skelter

or the riding of a bike.

Some may say this is the case,

But I say they can take a hike.

give to me that bodily ride

where and when that fantasised.

erotic with a part of me that hides not in a bole.

but well remembered hole.

Shaking from head to toe

when my bodily fluid explodes from its sac of cupid,

to the centre of desire.

Dousing Venus's fire.











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 Dominant Male


 United Kingdom

 5' 10"

 238 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

Sub/Sub Couples

A Poly Household


 Antique Shows (Beginner)



 Shopping (Expert)


 Anal Play


 Breast Play


 Cane / Crop Discipline


 Being Massaged

 Fire Play (Beginner)

 Fisting (Beginner)


 Hair Pulling (Expert)

 Humiliation / Degradation

 Knife Play (Beginner)


 Medical Play (Beginner)

 Mental Bondage (Beginner)


 Needle Play (Beginner)

 Obedience Training


 Orgasm Control (Beginner)

 Outdoor Bondage

 Pony/Puppy Roleplay

 Public Play

 Role Playing

 Sensory Deprivation


 Speech Restrictions




 Online Chatrooms

 Science Fiction






 Lifestyle BDSM



 Classical Music

 Nineties Music

 Auto Racing


 Art Galleries (Beginner)

 Bar Hopping (Expert)


 Fine Dining

 Flea Markets

 Garage Sales

 Going to the Opera


 Musical Theater

 Renaissance Faires (Beginner)



 Bicycling (Expert)

 Horseback Riding

 Hunting (Beginner)

 Martial Arts (Beginner)

 Yoga (Beginner)



 Eye Contact Restrictions

 Local BDSM Community

 Massage (Giving)


 Wax Play

 Board Games

 Card Games



 Comedy Shows


 Historical Shows


 Simulation Games

 True Crime

 TV News

 TV Sports

 Web Surfing



 Intellectual Discourse





 1950s Lifestyle

 Old Guard




 Alternative Music


 Blue Grass

 Country Music

 Eighties Music

 Electronica / EDM

 EMO Music

 Folk Music


 Heavy Metal Music

 Hip Hop Music

 Industrial Music


 New Age Music

 New Wave


 Opera Music


 Pop Music

 Punk Rock Music




 Rock Music

 Seventies Music

 Show Tunes





 Ice Hockey

 Kick Boxing




 Amusement Parks (Beginner)

 Coffee Shops


 Aerobics (Beginner)





 Domestic Service (Beginner)

 Arcade Games

 Puzzle Games

 Diet and Exercise

 Gorean Lifestyle

 Goth Lifestyle












 Curious About:

 Raves (Beginner)




 Scuba Diving


 Surf Boarding


 Body Worship


 Erotic Hypnosis

 Horror Movies


 Feng Shui




 Body Building



 Horse Racing



 Street Hockey




 Fishing (Beginner)

 Skate Boarding

 Role Playing Games

 Romance Novels

 Conservative Politics

 Female Supremacy







 Foot Worship

 Housework Service



 Hard Limits:


 Maid / Butler Service

 Oral Service

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Journal Entries:
12/31/2005 3:35:48 AM
Well I have been on here for a while now and I have had some conmtact here but not many positive answers one [username removed] has been texting but stillnot arranged to meet so waiting is with this one. Today at last got what appears to be a firm contact.  She is interested and porports to be 25 yes I like them younger. I have my concerns as to her being genuine but only time will tell that. I do want someone  to play with and eventualy get to 24/7 if they and I match so while I am having fun with chatting I hope to make the right connections here to go forward and enjoy even more.

Well that was a no show AGAIN do they ever turn up or keep to what they say?????.
Getting sick and tired of the scammers offrering themselves on this site.

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