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I am looking for a beta sub/slave to join my household.


"That which does not break us makes us stronger." - Friedrich Nietzsche

It is up to the Dom in a loving and trusting relationship to make the decisions, however He must earn the trust of the submissive. If a Dom was to expose a novice to extreme or hardcore play he runs the risk of frightening her and having her fear BDSM.

 

It is my opinion that if the Dom is gentle at fist, asking about her experiences and limits and proving to her He can be trusted then He can train her.

 

There is the right way to do something and the wrong way. The wrong way to make a horse take a saddle I feel is cruel and is called breaking the horse. Spurs are used to dig into the horse as a rider tries to hold on and wear the horse out thus breaking it's spirit.

 

The right way is to gentle the horse, feeding it and getting it used to your presence, the feel of the tack and saddle to win it's trust. This is a far more effective way in my opinion because the horse's spirit is still intact.

 There are those women who wish to be slaves and those who choose to be submissive. A woman with her free will is much more attractive, she decides to submit to her Dom's will, she chooses her Dom she trusts her Dom and what he wants she is willing to give. Her limits become his to set (ex I am not into blood or scat). So when I ask a question I am trying to get to know and to understand where the woman is in her journey, where she wants to go, and how far I can take her. I hope this was clear.

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10/5/2010 10:03:14 PM
Why are there so many cowards out there who E-mail and Block?

2/3/2009 8:14:12 PM
I want to know the things you wouldn't normally tell someone when you first meet, like do you snore (I do) what do you taste like (mostly salty but it does change with what I eat) Why a BDSM life style (I Love power exchange, nothing better than when a woman gives up control to her MASTER) What thing(s) turn you on most in a BSDM sexual encounter (Hearing the crack of my flogger contacting skin, the whimper as she takes the hit and the words which follow "Thank you SIR may I have another") Is lingerie a turn on or turn off for you (To see my woman in lingerie speaks volumes. The preparation time she took to get all wrapped up just so I can unwrapp her is a turn on, but still there is something to be said for being greeted at the door in an open front robe.) 

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throwYAround
 
 Age: 36
 Fairfield County, Connecticut