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DreamKeeper

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Hi, Let's start at the beginning, shall we?

First of all, thanks for taking the time to read my profile. My name is John, and I am just starting the Thirty's of life.

I've always been intrested in the BDSM lifestyle, having started out long ago as a submissive, but quickly found myself drawn to the dominant side more.

Like friendships, and all other kind of relationships, I do not have a set list of rules, demands, and wishes that applies to everyone equally. I change my expectancies and my desires depending on who I am with. Any form of interaction should be based on mutual respect, and caring. Of course, this does not negate possible aspects of fear and worry.

I have been exploring sexuality in all it's aspects, from the depths of shamefull depravity to the heights of pleasure just a light touch can bring. While there certainly are a number of things that don't appeal to me, I will not think less of anyone just because of the things they are into, and I am pretty certain there is nothing left in this regard that can really shock me.

Now, to what I am looking for. Due to my exploring, I find myself with a lot of intrests... ranging from an intrest in the Parent / Authority figure role, to enjoying a good puppygirl, from the light bondage, and tender loving, to unmentionable kinks and inflicting severe pain. Even the so orderinary vanilla can still do it for me. Variation is what keeps things intresting.

If you decide to message me, I hope to find a message from someone with an open mind, who has a healthy dose of common sense, and a mildly warped sense of humour.

I will not expect you to be into everything, or even anything, I like. As I said, I approach everyone as thier own person, and don't expect to find the answer to all my questions in one book, just like I don't expect to find all my kinks in one person. A general match is more then enough to start from, and build on. Hell, for friendship, we don't even need that.
My private life is very busy right now with setting up my own buisness, as well as having a job beside that to pay for the bills, and social activities, so I am currently only actively looking for friends, and / or possibly some online / phone playing. However, things might change at the drop of a hat, and you never do know what the future brings, so who knows what would happen if I meet the right girl.

One last thing. I realise this whole profile thing is very kindhearted. The reason for this is that I do not know you, the reader of my profile, yet. Therefore, I have no right to demand things, or call you names, or expect things from you right from the start. However, should we start to talk on a regular basis, my demeanour is subject to change depending on the type of connection there is between us.

Rests me to say, Thank you for reading so far, and when this profile intrests you, such as it is, I hope to hear from you.
8/22/2009 5:16:55 PM
short update. Been taken sick with the h1n1 flu. things got pretty bad but am slowly improving again.
7/30/2009 4:37:37 PM
Workload has increased dramatically due to people bieng more stupid at the office then usual.

Because of this while I do read messages sent to me, it is very hard to find time to reply properly, and I'd rather not reply then write a few hasty words.

Luckily, weekend soon!
7/27/2009 10:25:48 AM
Hmm. I pretty much realized as I was signing up that there would be a lot of morons and horny net geeks, and posers on here... but while browsing through the profiles, and seeing some of the messages in my inbox... I really wonder if some of them have any form of intelligence. Luckily I've already met some very nice people too!
SusyWong
 
 Age: 36
 Hilliard, Ohio