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If you so wish to deign me with the pleasure of friend requesting me, please take five or ten minutes to message me and tell me how you know . If you were just browsing, let me know what you found interesting about me. If you don't like me, block me and leave me alone. I am not a collector of anything as far as friends and partners. Yes I do play with a lot of people and am part of a large poly family more about that later. This does not mean that I want to fuck every Tom, Dick, Harry, Mary, Jane or Sue, but I do like to have my fun and I do enjoy making my own friends, but I want friends I am actually going to have intelligent conversation with as well as people who I can share my adventures and journeys with, so again please, if you are going to add me take a few minutes to message me and introduce yourself.
So I guess it is about time I update this damn thing, but as we all know I really hate writing these things because I never know what to say...... (insert sigh here) So I'll guess we will start with some basics.... I'm 30 yrs old, I'm 6ft 4 in and approx 250 lbs. I have been a Dom for about 5 years. But I have been in the lifestyle for 12 yrs. I have been on both sides of a flogger or other impact toy/tools, and various other types of play. That does not mean that I know everything (yes a Dom actually admits his limits)... In my eyes I still view myself just starting to come into my Dominate life, and now I'm just beginning to really understand what it means to be a Dom. To me it means great responsibility, respect of others and self, and control of myself as a whole, and balance. Yes I said balance, even a Dom who is a sadist must be able to have a fine balance of both his/hers sadistic side as well as their gentle caring side. A good Dom does not just beat his/her sub, and just leaves them afterwords, A good Dom cares for and respects what his/her sub has given to him/her and cherishes it for it is a precious gift any submissive could give. A good Dom/sub relationship, as I am learning, should be built and based upon HONESTY, TRUST, RESPECT, and UNDERSTANDING, don't forget COMMUNICATION (yes this is a very important key to any relationship, and yes I learned this the hard way). In my past I broken some of these virtues, and made many many mistakes, even bitten off more then I could chew a few times. But the key here is I learned from it and I will strive not make the same mistakes twice. For those of you who know me, I invite you to take this journey with me as I continue to grow and learn continually better myself, so those that are under my care may grow with me as we guide each other as we grow daily.
So I thought it was time I elaborated on a few things for people as some accusations have been flying around about me and I am going to clear things up. its seems as though people are accusing me of being a collector and that i am pretty much building a harem. first and foremost i am poly. if you think this is bad thing i really don't care. i am happy and my primary is happy and that is all i should have to say on this subject but for those of who need further clarification allow me to elaborate and illuminate on this situation. yes i do have several people under my protection. this does not been that i am dating and or fucking them. if i am dating them it will be listed on my profile. if i am play partners with them it will be listed on my profile. if i am just friends with benefits with them it will be listed on my profile. so let me explain what it means when someone is under my protection. a protector is a person in our community who looks out for the well being and safety of another because those individuals have come to an agreement and understanding that the protector usually a dominant male or female looks out for someone who is a bottom, submissive, slave, etc and is still trying to find their way. sometimes protectors and protectees end up having a play partner relationship, a d/s relationship or all of the above. the reason i thoroughly list who i am protecting, who i am dating and who i am dominant of is not to show off but it is to make it very well known and clear to those who may want to play with or get involved in any way shape or form with anyone who i am protecting, dating or dominate of to contact me first. a protector/dominant job when in a poly relationship situation is to screen and vet perspective new people. as well as advise those under his or her care to the safest options. i enjoy many different types of people and personalities. therefore i do date and play with many different people. i do this while practicing safe sane and consensual behaviors. if you have a problem with the fact that i am involved with multiple partners or feel that i am collector then you don't need to be around me and you can just move along. be an adult about it and rather than spread it around saying i am this that and the other, rather come talk to me about it. or better yet if you have nothing nice to say don't say anything at all. so in closing just because i am protecting someone does not necessarily mean i am fucking them. and if i am its none of your business.
/end. the subbies hands are tired and she is sleepy. <3koala
Ok enough about that....
So my kinky interest involves but not limited to :
Poly
Impact play
Knife play
Artistic wax play (yes i did start this fetish)
Bondage
Outdoor stuff ( i.e., kinky camping)
Role playing
Learning kinky sign language (yes this is true because my ex submissive/girlfriend is deaf and hence why I had to learn to communicate better the hard way! cuz i'm STUBBORN!)
Hard Limits are as follows and not negotiable:
Scat play
Golden Showers
Vomit ~aka~ Roman play
FEET and anything to do with FEET!
Anal (Not done to me only, yes I have tried it and no I don't like it! So don't try saying "OH you haven't had it done right!" no I just do not like it and it dose not turn me on!)
Blood play (ladies this includes your monthly time too)
Beastiality
Incest and/or Incest play (sorry not my cup of tea but will not hold it against you if it is yours)
Ok I think I have rambled on long enough
The 10 Kink Commandments:
1. All activity must be safe (we do not cause true harm), sane (we only engage in activity when we are clear of mind), and consensual.
2. We must always be respectful of our partner’s safe word (red/yellow/green) and their hard limits.
3. We only enter into activities after we have gained trust, education, and an open mind.
4. We must always be polite and ask questions.
5. We must not touch other people's equipment without permission.
6. We must always be clean, hygienic, and mindful of our own equipment.
7. We must always be mindful of aftercare.
8. We do not engage in humiliating and degrading scenes for solely our own amusement.
9. We always protect each others anonymity from the harsh eyes of the vanilla world.
10. Most importantly, we do not forget to have a good time.
So long for now
Draven A Kane
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