drakesmith on Collarspace

Update 4/25/09







I have decided to offer my services as a TRAINER to submissive, Dominant & switch females. 













I am also willing to help train D/s Couples (either F/F or M/F) who are D/s, D/D or s/s or not quite sure yet.
I am willing to meet with you a few times first to talk and get to know each other before we do anything. 
I am well known amongst the Boston fetish & BDSM community, have a good reputation as a respectful & caring person and can provide many references if needed.
The other service I am willing to offer for people who need it, is to introduce them to the people involved in the scene in Boston & bring them to some of the better play parties.

This will only occur after I feel comfortable with you and would be willing to give myself as your reference.
My training is intensive and from the ground up. I will help you understand what D/s is and help you to properly intergrate before anything physical occurs.
By nature I am a teacher & a guide. I would be more than happy to share this with the right person &/or couple. 
Please feel free to contact me with any questions. Please do not be offended if I tell you I can not work with you. I may be busy with some other person or may feel we are not a proper match for the training.
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*** A Sacred Bond ***
My submissive is a reflection of Me and I of
her. She is the girl who holds my heart. It is hers to protect and love as I will do to her.

For this, she will always feel me by her side. My hand, My presence, My will, My being, My bond. It will always be with her. To guide her. To love her. Even when we are apart.

Together we become intertwined - incomplete when we are apart, complete when we are together. A union that will hold us closer than anything physical could.

My collar that I place upon my girls neck is the symbol of this sacred bond... a bond that will never break as long as the collar is worn.

It is a spiritual circle, a focus, that allows me to reach inside and touch her soul. It allows me to move and manipulate her energy, to open her up and expose her to the light without ever needing to lay a hand upon her.

All of this and much more lie within this simple symbol of love, obedience, honor and trust.

My name is Drake. I have been involved in the lifestyle for a while now and have spent the last few years getting to know some of the great people of like mind in the Boston area.

I have found a great group of friends who I feel very close to and consider a second family. They are always warm, welcoming, understanding, deviantly dark and demented... in all the fun ways.

I took some time off from the scene last year, but came back a few months ago. Just like I thought, my place was held for me and I was taken back in. Something I won't forget and will always keep in my mind in all my actions and interactions with the community.

I am primal, tribal and a modern privative. I am pierced, tattooed and plan to be suspended by hooks this summer.

I am addicted to passion, desire, love, lust and anything that makes me feel like a privative beast.

I am deeply spiritual but not religious. I do not believe in god, but I believe in the divine.

I am an artist, a poet and there are times when I feel that I am just a conduit for something greater than myself.

I am a teacher, a philosopher and a student every day. I love talking, listening, arguing and debating. I love environments and people that foster these situations.

I am a catalyst for change. People that get close to me find this out fast. Evolve or die trying.

I am anything but ordinary, think being normal is a disease to overcome, embrace the strange, dark, mysterious, curious, Gothic and unknown.

Many people know parts of me, but no one has ever seen all of me. I would like to eventually find that person.

All of that being said, if you do not know me you would have no idea about any of this because I learned early on to walk in both worlds. My tattoos can be hidden with short sleeves and pants and I can wear a retainer in my septum if needed.

Recently I made the decision to start looking for a submissive again. While ultimately I would like to find a long term relationship, I would like to start by having fun and enjoying what situations come along the way.

I am very loving and romantic to my partners in my life. Dedicated to those I hold close. Protective and dedicated.

Those of you who know me, know of my last relationship and have seen it in action. All you need to do is ask around and you will see what I mean.

I tend to gravitate towards Daddy Dom with the right girl. While it is not necessary it is always a nice bonus. Nothing melts me faster than "Yes, Daddy" said from a girl who is really at that place and getting to punish a girl who is really there is amazing.

I find the D/s relationship can be very spiritual and deep. Way beyond sex, way beyond control, way beyond pleasure and pain.

I am very much into energy work, manipulation and spirituality. I have found girls that are receptive to energy manipulation tend to make amazing submissives. The ability to open yourself up to someone, let them reach inside you and move your energy around is not something everyone can do.

I am curious about Tantra and sex magik but have never found the right partner to explore these things with.

My partner must be mentally and physically in good shape. This means you are not overweight and can handle being in a D/s relationship. She must be willing to explore and push boundaries, but also understanding that I will not push her to far or too fast. She needs to not worry about time frames and able to enjoy things as they are at that time. When I feel we are ready to move on to something else, the time will present itself and I will move us there.

When training I spend a lot of time dealing with psychology, how our interactions effect you and figuring out limits and how able you are to push past them.

I am very respectful and very complex. I can guarantee one thing and that is it will be a unique experience.