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I have now been 'in the life' for over 20 years - I gained interested when I was 19.
I have now been without a slave for a few years and am therefore seeking a new girl (and by 'girl', I mean someone who was born female and still is) and knows deep in her heart that her place is as a slave.
Before going further - I need to point out that I believe in 'the way of life' (or 'lifestyle') of a Master and slave - this is D/s to me, not B/D or even BDSM.
For me, I believe in the Master/slave relationship. That the slave is owned, that she is there to obey her owner in all things, at all times. That said, I also believe in open and honest communication between the Master and slave, and that if the slave needs to ask questions then she should feel that she is able to do so without fear of speaking out of turn, as long as she is asking respectfully.
Four things I will expect from any girl:- honesty, loyalty, obedience, and dedication.
I know full well that trust is an important part (for both myself and the girl involved, that is) of an M/s relationship and, therefore, fully expect to get to know any potential new slave well before meeting - though I don't want to spend many months doing so.
I am seeking a slave who will serve 24/7 - that's full-time, live-in and permanent. This does mean that the girl will serve as a domestic (as a maid, cooking and cleaning) and, yes, this means that the slave will be available for me to use sexually as and when I wish, wherever that may be. However, this 'use' is not exclusive to sex. Sex is important to me but also far from the be all and end all of any Master/slave relationship.
This does not exclude the girl from working outside of my home. What it means is that the slave 'knows' that she is owned, be that in my presence or not. Be that at home, at work, or when out with friends... she is owned. Still my slave.
It is a slave I am seeking, not a girlfriend. This does not mean, however, that feelings for each other should not exist. If I was seeking a doormat, I'd go to Asda or Tesco. The slave would be required to behave as a girlfriend when in public (we all have 'nilla lives, after all) but still KNOW that she is my/a slave (sorry to repeat myself).
For the girl to serve collared in my home (and outside) is a requirement - though, admittedly, I do have a 'kink' for women in stockings, suspenders and high-heels. When in public, the slave must be able to show others a lady-like behavior, but will at all times know her position is as my slave (or whatever else I may wish to call her). When in public the girl will dress how I wish (or, at least, will dress knowing that she is doing so to please me), knowing that if and when I wish, her body must be available for me to use - this means that I must have ease of access to her body at all times. The collar that the girl wears will remain on at all times, be that in my home or out in public. Though a more discreet collar of some nature will be worn when in public.
Punishments will be given - but I believe in punishments for misbehavior and hesitation, not for pleasure.
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