Ok for the women I message let me be upfront about something. I do read your profiles and if in your profile you have something specific that would make you not interested in me trust me Ive read that. If I do wind up messaging you its only to encourage you. Being on here is hard you go to wade through a lot of creeps,fakes,and wackos in order to find your ONE. And personally it makes me feel better when I send them out. Im not expecting a reply and I expect quite a few of them to be deleted unread. But what I dont like its when a woman replies back going off on me about how stupid I am and cant I read the profile says that your not  interested in a person outside your state ect ect. Guess what nice guys do exist here. Secondly not everyone who messages has an agenda. Frankly it makes me feel good to give encouragement to others. So if you dont like it just delete it Im not going to re message you again and again and again.