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Im learning as I progress. At first, I put myself squarely in the dominant box, but now I see its not that simple. I am dominant, but theres also a huge part of me thats very daddy. It translates into the everyday, that Im not really cut out for giving constant control. I think I like the fullness of my life too much for that.

I like to ride my motorbike, I gain fulfilment from the effort and the everyday interchange of my work, whilst for instance Id be quite happy to tie you up and keep you like a little fuckdolly sometimes, I also like to take you out and socialise with my friends, or take you to the beach, or for dinner..

Theres quite a lot of love in me, I tend to adore girls. You should see the awful mess Ive made of my cat, Doris. Shes utterly ruiiiined. I quite like to spoil my girl, but please dont think Im some sort of stupid mealticket. You will be very disappointed.

What am I looking for? Youll be around 40 to 50, I dont at all mind somebody younger or older, but thats a general guide. Im looking ultimately for a LTR based on Ds, and some level of commitment, but thats an equation decided by both parties, and some knowledge of each other. I dont EXPECT a conversation to turn into something, but equally, if all you want is a play partner, dont waste both our time eh? Equally, if we have fun, but decide along the way were not for each other, thats the way it goes huh? Youll likely be a kinky bitch, who likes it a bit spirited.

Ill probably add more to this in time, but if theres anything you want to know, just ask Daddy....
12/2/2023 9:33:08 AM

The art of inspiring submission or slavery is being able to genuinely offer something, that a submissive or slave will consider doing anything for.  

One of the most desirable things is integrity.  That includes honesty, reliability, and understanding yourself.  You cannot expect a person to crave to submit to you, if you dont have those attributes.   And understanding yourself is the most important.  Its a long journey, and maybe is never complete.  But the more you travel it, the more the other attributes fall into place.

For instance, the better you understand yourself, the more impossible it becomes to be dishonest.

 

 

9/9/2016 8:54:50 AM
So many women complain, with unarguable justification, about the dreadful bad manners on the site. And yet most of them don't have the courtesy to make the effort to say "no thanks, you're not for me", in reply to a polite introductory message. We're all part of the problem, and we're all part of the solution... you get what you give.
1/3/2014 7:33:54 AM

Seems I have a porn kitty. My cat sat on my lap as I logged on.  She got bored of that, and decided to sit on the pc desk.  That clearly wasnt amusing enough, so her attention was taken by the (irritating to us humans) "nawty gurlz" feed in the righthand column.  After a couple of minutes of said rather unattractive girls shaking her bits at the cam, my cat reached out and gently placed her paw over it. 

 

Heres the thing, was she after some "pussy", or did she find it as unattractive as me... ?

 

Answers please.

12/31/2013 9:23:55 AM

Happy New Year.

I take care to keep myself in shape.  I'm not fanatical.  I overeat sometimes, I have a drink.  I'm not a supermodel, but I dont look bad with my clothes off.  I dont have lucky genes, I dont starve myself.   Just a bit of exercise, thinking about what I eat.

So whats wrong with you doing the same?

9/3/2013 11:38:09 AM

Thought for the day...  whats with putting "UK" as your location?  "Birmingham" or "Portsmouth" are sufficiently big enough places that nobody is going to find you and stalk you, are they?   And if youre serious about finding somebody to meet, wouldnt it make sense to give them some idea of where you are?   I suspect if you live in Aberdeen, however lovely you are, any conversation would end up pretty fruitless, unless your family owns an airline, of course...    just saying. 

6/4/2013 5:30:04 AM

... am I alone here in sometimes thinking... "What a fucking CIRCUS!!!"

4/5/2013 6:30:21 PM

... and if you gaze for long into an abyss, the abyss gazes also into you

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 Age: 19
  Georgia