There are certain times and events that causes O/one to reflect on the important things in life. 

Thought For The Day: 

Better to be HURT by the TRUTH than COMFORTED with a LIE.

After attempting to ignore the aforementioned detailed event, the immaturity of a particular individual has caused this entry.

Originally, I decided not to post the name of the "sub" because I deemed it unnecessary.  A subsequent message, sent after I posted my earlier journal entry, resulted in a change of opinion. 

MASOSEXSLAVE just messaged the following:


"LOL DUMB ASS DO YOUR SUPERIORS KNOW WHAT YOU ARE DOING ON THIS SITE  I KNOW PEOPLE TOO  IM IN FLA AD NEW YORK TOLD YOU WE ARE MOVING ASS HOLE"


Since MASOSEXSLAVE feels that is "necessary" to block me from responding, I will post my reply here:

"Interesting way of conveying your opinion - make a "statement" then run away and hide.  Of course you realize I saved not only your orginal profile but also our chat so if/when you do "report" me, you will have to provide sworn testamony before a public forum of competent jursidiction to both your "complaint" and to our communication.  Thus, I wonder how you would handle yourself when you can not run and "hide" behind the anonymity of the internet.  I also wonder how your husband, family and friends would handle your testimony in open court especially if they are unaware of your interests and activities.

"Unlike those who you may be able to intimidate or bully with your delusions and "accusations", I am neither intinidated or cowered.  No matter what you may perceive, believe, or dream, I will stand before any one, anywhere, and defend myself.  So, please, have whatever "people" you may know approach me; I am not only confident that the strongest shall remain standing afterwards but I am also confident that you shall not be amongst the ones still standing."



So, MASOSEXSLAVE, you have my response.  As far as I am concern, the issue is over and done with.  However, if you feel that it is necessary for you to purse this any further, then, by all means, please do so. 

The behavior of some people never ceases to amaze me.  While chatting with a sub who stated that she was from NY, I noticed that her profile stated her distance was 985 miles away from me.  When I asked "her" where she was located at, "she" replied "Albany".  Further attempts at questioning caused "her" to end the chat and send the following message:

"i think you are a fake and lyer you stoke people and play games on there emotions  maybe that why you dont have anyone and if you did or  you was talking to a female maybe she wised up to see you are an onliner."

Immediately after sending this message, the "sub" blocked any further form of communication from me. However, its amusing to note that her profile now states that she is from "Florida" instead of the original "New York".

Everyone knows and understands that this type of forum attracts scammers and players, on the other hand, it appears that not all people understand the importance of clarifying any "questions" one may have of a someone they just met.  Questioning someone over any noted discrepancies does not imply weakness, disrespect, falsehood, deceit, or any other derogatory term you may think of.  It DOES reflect an appropriate level of common sense that should always be present not only while participating in the prefered activities within this arena but also in all areas of life.

And, last, but far from least, I wish everyone a Happy Turkey Day.  Gobble-Gooble!

After being away for a period of time due to professional reasons, I have returned to an overflowing mailbox.  Though it is My intent to respond to all messages, suffice to say, it will take me awhile to send a response to all.

However a quick observation: there are some subs/slaves who felt that it was "necessary" to express a negative attittude because I did not respond either "immediately" or within a short period of time.  For those who feel like they can demand instant attention, all I can say is that an mindset such as that makes it quite evident as to why you are unowned / uncollared.  And since first impressions are lasting, you should have a pretty good idea what type of impression I have of you.  But just so that there will not be any doubt, I will clearly articulate My impressions in My response to you.

After two days on this site, I have been contacted by many submissives who respectfully (for the most part) questioned why only "Old Guard" is listed on My Profile. As this appears to be somewhat of a major concern for some, I have decided to enlighten future correspondents to the following before they contact Me.

Over the years I have witnessed and/or experienced the unfortunate results that occur whenever a sub/slave morphs his/her interests in order to make themselves more "attractive" to a particular Dom/Domme. This form of "masquerade" leads to pain, misery, distrust, and lost opportunities. After personally experiencing this phenomenon twice in my life, I make it a point not to discuss My particular interests .

In order to draw My Attention and Interest, a sub/slave must be able to fully comprehend and completely relate to this: The fundamental basis of a healthy BDSM relationship is the "Safe, Sane, and Consensual" exchange of not only power but also of respect, dedication, and commitment. As a Dom/Master/Owner, it is My Honor is to love and cherish My sub/slave. It is My Duty to protect and sustain her as W/we explore her limits. It is My Responsibility to train, guide, and mentor her as W/we travel beyond those limits. It will be My Pleasure to see her successfully accomplish the goals that I have set for her. And it will be My Intensity that she will experience whenever she fails to accomplish whatever task has been set out for her.

Now, are you worthy?