I am a single,white, dominant male who resides in the NYC metropolitan area.

While I do not have an aversion to casual BDSM play, most of my scening has been done in the context of relationships ( some as long as 5 years ).... and most of them were not nearly as experienced as myself. However, I have "played" casually with some more experienced fetishists and subs. I would prefer the former situation(s) to the latter....for me, the sensation is incredibly heightened when emotion is present.

I possess an extensive fetish wardrobe of latex, leather and pvc --primarily composed of House of Harlot, Demask, and Regulation pieces including:from House of Harlot-- military uniform,police uniform,and pilot uniform in latex; various Demask outfits in latex-- surgeon gown, mortician apron, several catsuits, motorcycle jacket, several coats; some PVC; numerous leather ensembles; boots-- leather, patent leather platforms,latex, including military and hip-high waders, et al.


Additionally, I have a toy/furniture/implement collection which has been amassed over a 15 year period. I view this "collection" as a work in progress. Most of the larger pieces of equipment ( i.e. spanking bench, vacuum bed, bondage chair ) are new and unused, and while aesthetically pleasing, would be utilized best and in a more functional capacity with a special person.My dungeon includes: Furniture-- a brand-new spanking bench with 10 restraints and forearm and leg padding, a new Regulation latex vacuum bed, and a Tetruss suspension frame.
Equipment-- numerous hoods and masks in leather and latex from Demask and Regulation,floggers, paddles, whips, crops, tawse,barber strop, canes in rattan and fiberglass,numerous nipple clamps, lots of medical equipment, catheters, needles, armbinder, leg binder, sleepsack, strait-jacket, gags, latex strapping, et al. I've recently picked un an Erostek unit with several attachments. I have to admit that I'm a complete novice with electro-play. I've also been learning Japanese rope bondage.

Now on to my fetishes, etc. I am into most aspects of BDSM, including specifically but not exclusively : sensory deprivation, bondage, corporal discipline,toilet training, enforced chastity, humiliation, latex, body worship, leather, fisting, medical, nipple and breast torture, genital torture, et al.

Hopefully, the above lists give you some insight into my tastes. While you need not be experienced in all of the above, there should be some overlapping interests and a sincere desire to have your limits expanded.

In terms of interaction, I prefer playing in the context of rules, guidelines, and having the sub willing to do what pleases me. All of the aforementioned assumes that there is chemistry and trust inherent in the relationship. The experience is heightened tremendously when there is a sexual energy between myself and the sub and when I know that the sub truly gets pleasure from providing me with pleasure and accepting what I dole out.

Additionally, I have been a regular attendee of fetish events such as: The Black and Blue Ball, Diabolique, several Paddles events ( both old and new venues),The Exotic Erotic Ball, Hellfire ( usually, regrettably), The Vault ( likewise regrettably), and most recently, The Two Towers Ball at Webster Hall.

I am both undergraduate and graduate school educated (BS/MBA), which has led to a life of self-employment in the investment field. My interests and hobbies would range from fine dining, live theater, movies, music (both recorded and live performance), shopping, cooking, golf, tennis, horses, and while I don't presently own any... I adore cats.

I would hope that you would find me attractive, youthful in appearance and intellectually stimulating. I look forward to hearing from you and would welcome any questions. Please provide me with some of your interests , both scene-wise and vanilla.