The most intriguing profile I ever read had the statement:
Unless I'm wearing your collar, don't call me 'daddy'.
Several concepts clicked for me upon reading that.
There are discussion groups on another site called "daddies who aren't really "in charge": the other side of the coin" and "Daddyslaves for daughters". There are collars that literally just say "Daddy" on them.
Ever seen a Canadian zom-rom-com called Fido? Remember the end? "C'mon, Daddy."
I did an experiment on a kinky social networking site and ran a search on "sub daddy". There were a fair amount of "Sub4Daddy" or "Daddy4Sub" accounts, but also a significant number of "SubDaddy" or "DaddySub" profiles - people who both identified as submissives and daddies.
Yes. I want a somewhat switchy play relationship with a Domme/sub power exchange. My ideal man would be my submissive daddy, and I'd be his dominant girl. We'd both wear each other's collars. He'd wear panties and I'd sit on his lap. There'd be primal play, wrestling around, learning, and exploring.
I’m not against protectiveness, strength, butchness, or anything else. I’m actually a fan, so long as it’s under my control. Yes, I think that an obedient, leashed monster will do just fine.
I'm looking for submissive or switch men within 7 years of my own age (48 - 61) who are Greater Seattle / Puget Sound residents, and are available for a publicly recognized relationship.
Before I even meet someone who is local to Seattle, I get asked what I will do with them. I am a literal-minded person and I honestly don't know: each person, and each dynamic is different.
Do you have a chastity device? I'd love to talk to you about that, while you're wearing it. How do you feel about being touched on the first meeting, in public? On which parts of you, and how firmly?
Do you mind being called 'boy'? Being called 'cute'? I hope so, because I'm likely to do it anyway.
Local submissive daddies who like wearing collars can move to the front of the line.
I’m fully vaccinated, complete with three boosters.