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DominaPhia

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*Not Seeking Partners* I am a fashion worshipper, sci-fi/fantasy fan, nerdy, girly girl, femme who loves animals, enjoys nature, is into 3D movies, is a crystal enthusiast, likes to meditate, is a writer/poet, loves to read, has a good sense of humor, compassionate, genuine, creative... Currently, in grad school. Relatively new to BDSM, but learning quickly. Thing I Enjoy: shopping, pampering myself, long walks, rugby, drinking games, fanfiction, makeup, feminism, poetry, writing, activism, shoes, equal rights for all, glitter, receiving gifts, being a goddess, video games, computer games, camping, history, concerts, libraries, hanging out with friends, walking my dog, reading about FemDom, learning bondage, lingerie/fetish wear, Sunday drives, singing, bubble baths. I drink socially and am 420 friendly. What I Look Like: Green eyes, curvy body, DD's, plus size (pleasantly plump, not in BBW range at all), shapely legs, wavy/curly hair, hair color changes at my whim-currently auburn. I am a believer in Safe Sane Consentual and RACK. I adhere to the submissive and dominant's bill of rights. I am a kind, sensitive and compassionate woman who happens to have a sadistic streak. It gives me a real thrill to see somebody who is a proud, self aware individual willingly grovel at my feet and crave my lash. I give excellent after care and have true concern for my partners. I wish to find activities which fulfill both parties kink and needs. I only engage in safe sex and expect the same from partners. I will not play with anyone who doesn't get tested (it's for your own good as well!) Poly relationships are of especial interest to me. I have not experienced one and would like to. I don't deal in hurt feelings, so I won't engage with anyone who has a partner that they keep their FemDom a secret from. I am interested in males/females/trans people who are submissive or switches (but I am not interested in submitting myself). All body types, races, gender identities and sexual orientations are cool with me. I would prefer to find a person who is between 21 and 50. Couple play intrigues me. Experienced or new folks are welcome alike. If you think you are worthless or less than me, we won't get along. I treat all people as equals-just because we engage in a power exchange does not make me better than you. Respect is an important part of trust. I have a particular weakness for geeks/nerds. I have pretty diverse tastes. I do really like a person with intellect and confidence, those are about the only qualities my past lovers have shared. Turn Ons: intelligence, friendliness, kindness, nice breasts, cute butt, good hair, confidence, common sense, humor, masochists, shapely ladies of size, tall gents, service subs Turn Offs: ignorance, hate, rude people, pushy people, slobs, know it alls, excessive body hair, ass crack hanging out of your pants, girls who have to say how fat they are when they aren't to get a compliment, poor grammar I have a primary partner who is my fiancée and submissive. She is aware of my account and happy for me to take on another submissive. She is only interested in females, so there is no potential for a male sub to become involved with both of us, but it is possible for a female sub (only if you want that, not an expectation). If you have any strange notions that I am looking for a penis to fill some gap in my relationship, you are sorely mistaken. I have my own strap on and use it with skill. :) I keep my kink and my vanilla life fairly separate. You don't have to be the same way, just respect that I have some privacy to maintain. I would love to meet people who are involved in the local Maine scene, go to munches, house parties or fun places you know of. I fully admit to being a novice in this area. Hard Limits: Scat, bestiality, minors/age play, rape scenes, fluid exchange, electro play, needles, blood sports Kinks: I am a domme who likes role play, dress up/ fetish wear, giving a nice flogging, disciplining you with a spanking, swinging crops, bind you up in metal bondage, tying you up in rope bondage (brand new at this!), putting blindfolds/masks/gags and collars/cuffs/leash on a sub, torturing you with wax play, giving some light knife play, covering you with tape, giving you obedience training, indulging you in a smoking fetish and teasing you until you can't take it anymore I like leather and sex toys. I like to receive D/s protocol, domestic service, body worship, foot fetish/boot worship, massages, oral sex Please share some information about yourself, if you choose to contact me. I will delete anything that has a naked picture attached. If I want to see, I'll ask! There is nothing more off putting than checking your email at 8 AM and seeing a picture of a stranger's balls. What I would like to see is a picture of your lovely face! My preference is to spend some time getting to know you online before meeting in person, so we can see if we are a match and for safety. Going out to lunch is my idea of a nice way to meet a new friend or play partner. “The most courageous act is still to think for yourself. Aloud.”

--Coco Chanel

1/31/2013 7:46:49 AM

I've found a couple of potential subs and/or new friends here, so for the time being I will be suspending my search. :) If we've been talking back and forth, you got to be on of the lucky contenders.

 

 I wish everyone who is still looking the best of luck!

1/29/2013 9:23:11 AM

Finally caught up on all my mail! Sorry if you had to wait a while for a response.

1/25/2013 11:38:01 AM

I discovered the Collars and Cuffs site is temporarily down for maintenance. Hopefully, it will be back up soon.

1/24/2013 3:01:10 PM

Just wanted to share one of my favorite sites with you all: www.collarsncuffs.com

 

It's a great FemDom site (mostly female dommes and male subs, but there are a few f/f pairings). It had the best information about FemDom and BDSM.

Geniesserin
 
 Age: 42
 Dallas, Texas