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I’m Domina Lumina. I will answer to Lumie. I am a Lifestyle Domme. What this means to Me is that dominance isn't a persona I assume, it's part of who I am. It means when I have time, I take on subs and train them, because I enjoy it. YOU don't get to command ME to give you my phone number, my address, my email, my Skype, or even my Name. When and ONLY when I trust you and feel you have earned that privilege would I gift you with any of that information. The two of us will get along just fine, as long as you show basic decency. Politeness is key. Even though I am young, that does not make me some stereotypical "brat" domme. I can be cute and sweet and silly, but I have a mind. I know how to use it. If you're looking for a whiny little child to flip you off and act like an airheaded doll, you've come to the wrong woman.
If I deem you worthy of serving me, I want to tear your brain apart. I want to look inside you and see all the little ticking parts, to know you better than you know yourself. And I often get what I want. I'm going to show you your proper place in this world, and help you embrace the submissive nature we both know is inside of you.
Now, before I say anything else, I will assume you do NOT send people random crotch shots as your way of saying "Hi" in the vanilla world. I think we can both agree that this is a wonderful tradition. Let's keep it~.

As far as titles go, you may refer to me as Ma’am, Mistress, Goddess, Miss, Domina, Time Lady, Queen Amidala, Her Imperial Condescension. You know, the basic stuff. For me, it's not the title itself that's important, but rather, what it represents.
I do have one exception regarding this. DO NOT call me Princess. I know there’s some girls who work that title well, but I don’t like being called that. I find that this particular title is typically used to undermine the authority of a dominant woman. Princesses don't rule empires, they don't lead armies, and they're certainly not the ones in control. When you write me your initial message to me, try keep in mind that I am a human being, not a walking, talking fetish factory. This means that I am capable of complex thoughts, feelings and behaviors. If you call yourself a sub, but do not have the ability to treat a woman you're seeking to serve with respect and decency, I will question how legitimate you are. I'm sure as a functioning adult you can tell the difference between polite and impolite behavior. I know I can be quite intimidating, but it's alright~. I won't bite... hard.

Now that that's out of the way...
  • Pets, subs and slaves that are intelligent, interesting, and find strength in their service to me. I make this distinction because all three are completely separate categories for me and I expect different things from them all.
  • For you to be clear with what you want in your first message. DON'T waste my time. If you want to serve me, tell me. If you have questions, ask them. If you want to talk a bit to see if we click, say that.
  • My ideal pet is eager to please, dedicated and adorable. They want to use their submission as a way being to be the very best they can. They may need guidance, training or reassurance, but they know that isn't a fault. A good pet wants to make me smile, and is happiest when their Mistress is pleased.
  • My perfect sub is a bit of a dork, shares vanilla interests with me, and can go from a great conversation to a mutually fulfilling scene in the same sitting. They follow directions well, and know how to cater to my whims. They know to show me respect.
  • The best slave knows their place. They know that they aren't worthy of my time or attention. A good slave knows that their worth is based on how much I allow them to suffer for me, and is grateful for each humiliation I let them endure for my own amusement~.
WHAT I LIKE (Be into some of these, or I'm not into you at all~.)
  • Chastity Control
  • Impact Play (spanks, CBT, flogging, caning, ect.)
  • Being Pampered~ (I absolutely love getting fanart, gifts, fansigns. They're one of the quickest ways to show me that you're serious, and I appreciate every one.)
  • Humiliation/Degradation
  • Sissification
  • Pet Play (NO REAL BESTIALITY EVER!!!) I especially like puppies, kitties, ponies and bunnies.
  • Interrogation Play
  • Roleplay~
  • Bondage (especially rope bondage!)
  • Sensation Play
  • Tease and Denial
  • Begging~
WHAT I HATE (Things that'll get you deleted or blocked!)
  • Anything poop/vomit related.
  • Anything involving abusing animals or children.
  • Dom(me)s who want to top me. I have no interest in you, move on.
  • Whining about wanting real time or sending me your personal number/address when I DON'T EVEN KNOW YOU.
  • Not reading my profile before messaging me.
  • Copy pasted bullshit.
  • Timewasters~.

  • I am NEVER obligated to reply to your message, especially if you're rude.
  • As a test to see if you've actually bothered to read my profile, and to let me know you have the ability to follow the most basic of instructions, begin your message with the phrase "Cairo Overcoat". Failure to do so shows me that you don't care about what I have to say, and don't value my time, so I don't care about you. Not beginning your message with "Cairo Overcoat"is the same thing as telling me you want your message to be DELETED UNREAD~.
  • I DON'T use yahoo or teamviewer. Mention either and I'll laugh at you while I'm deleting your message.
  • I'm not on 24/7, if you send me whiny bullshit because I didn't reply to your message in three minutes, I will delete and/or block you.

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5/2/2022 12:13:29 PM

Note for anyone reading my profile in teh modern tiemz: I'm not 21, I'm 27. I'm not straight, I am pan.

This is not reflected in my current profile because of this site's chronic disability to approve profiles once you edit them anymore, as you are all probably aware. Thank u for coming to my TedTalk that is all.

10/11/2017 6:43:04 PM
One of my play partners is going to be back in the state in a few weeks and he's letting me flog him and I am sooooo pumped <3

And a new sub of mine miiiight be buying me fetish gear tonight when he gets off work. I reeeeally want new handcuffs! Ugh. I'm bored right now, so I just turned on my line
(on NF under Lumina Litely) it'll only be on until I go out later, so message me here for a direct link, or just call, if you're interested in chatting or a scene~.

3/9/2017 8:27:51 PM
I've been super stressed lately. Debating opening up my phone lines over the weekend to let off some steam... message me if you're curious or interested

10/20/2016 8:42:26 PM
Honestly feeling very freaking sadistic tonight.
Like, incredibly so. Just turned my listing on again.
You don't haaave to be really into pain to call rn, but if I can get at least one person with liiike, a metric ton of clothes pins, or ice, that'd be reeeeally great~.

And in the future, you can take my listing being on as permission to call, babes. As cute as the whole asking first thing is... *yawn*

10/19/2016 6:02:57 PM
Turned on my listing for the first time yesterday, already got my first handful of calls, but no one brave enough to leave any feedback yet~.

Tonight I'm really craving either an intense impact play/cbt session... preferably with edging and a cum denial, or to get my first "forced" femme call. Mayyybe both at once.

If that sounds up your alley, either message me for a link to my listing, or find it on NF yourself. Probably going to leave my line open tonight until 1/2 AM EST~. And I'd prefer someone get that done sooner rather than later.

10/11/2016 8:20:05 PM
Alright, little lurkers, I know which one of you pounce on my page just hoping I'll notice you. Well, I am finally on Niteflirt~ (under the name Lumina Litely)
My listing is pending approval, but NOW is the time to arrange to be my very first call EVER <333

6/22/2016 5:42:18 PM
Back on Fet and CS after a bit of a hiatus from the scene! Bored and looking~. I'll be cleaning out my inbox for a bit, but now is the time to message if you're interested or been a little lurker~

7/5/2015 4:45:10 PM
Back, and starting fresh. I'm cleaning out every message over a month old.

Don't think I don't see you lurking on my profile~. Now's the time to try to grab my attention, before I get busy again.

6/28/2014 3:04:40 PM
New femdom anthem <3

6/18/2014 11:49:38 PM
Guess who's back~! (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ ~*~

5/13/2014 9:21:28 PM
SO I'm watching this documentary on Netflix...

It’s called Unhung Hero. Basically, the whole premise is this super insecure vanilla dudebro’s girlfriend wouldn’t marry him because he has a microdick, so, he loses his shit, goes to all his exs to ask if his dick was too small, goes to all his friends and and family and a doctor and they all tell him, yeah, he has a fucking baby dick.

So, he goes on some fucking ridiculous regime to try and “fix” it, spends all this money on ridiculous shit and somehow gets to interview all these big name members of the kink world/sex industry, and goes on this world wide journey just because his cock is tiny.

Jesus christ.


5/12/2014 11:01:52 PM

Finals are so gross. :I Aced my physics final, but they're still gross. Bleh. I can't believe I'm almost done with my very first year of college. Time is such an odd thing. I should really be sleeping, but I don't have another final until 2, so I think I'm good~.

At least it's almost summer vacation, though. (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ ~*~  


I've made so many friends within the kink community in the past year, it makes me so happy to think of the rad dudes and ladyfolk I've met that I know I never would have if I hadn't dived headfirst into being a Domme. Looking back, the year has shaped up to be so very amazing...

HOWEVER. College tests are super gross. Juuuuuust sayin'~  (◡ ‿ ◡ ✿)

2/23/2014 4:20:48 PM

Another femdom anthem~.

Power and Control by Marina and the Diamonds.

2/22/2014 12:11:50 PM

Another femdom anthem, babies~! :3

2/11/2014 4:55:31 AM

It's been a while since the last femdom anthem~. ;)

2/1/2014 1:18:51 AM

Time for some real talk. 



1/18/2014 3:20:37 AM


So I'm watching this really, really bad B-Movie. (So horribly written and acted that the very incompetence of the movie is funny.)


And here it is, the most horribly acted Dominatrix scene I have ever seen, I cry, omfg, what is even this???

1/4/2014 1:30:39 AM

A femdom anthem to mark the end of Lumiepocalypse. 


1/1/2014 9:54:37 AM

Please excuse the derp confirmation pictures. I made them in, like, 5 seconds. Apparently they're viewing my account because you can't mention other sites on here? Anyway, until they finish that, my account is "hidden". Soooooo, yeah.


Sorry babies, I'm probably going to have to sweep through my journal, and cull a lot of posts once I get a message back from support.


12/30/2013 9:08:04 PM


I haven't posted a Femdom Anthem in a while~

Enjoy <3

12/27/2013 6:41:32 AM

Guess who's going on a DMVenture today~?


Does anyone have a snazzier way to say "I'm going to the DMV today and I'm going to watch my soul become so bored and frustrated that it explodes "? Ughhhh.

At least I have a new good book to keep me company~
You don't understand how happy I am to have this much loose leaf in the house now that I have tea strainers.

It's so... beautiful. *single tear of joy*

12/23/2013 1:05:02 PM

Haha, I know I haven't been posting much recently, but it's crazy close to Christmas and Yule just whizzed by...

But I wish a very happy holiday season to everyone~

12/14/2013 4:58:40 PM


A Very Merry Gallifreyan Holiday greeting to all~
Umf, I love this so much... <3

12/11/2013 7:02:04 AM



Very good response, sir~. ^.^

12/6/2013 5:22:51 AM


<3 <3 <3
Yes, good.

12/1/2013 3:10:42 PM



(That parallel universe doesn't look THAT bad, Rose...)

12/1/2013 9:40:36 AM

Too cute to not post.



11/28/2013 12:06:47 AM






Own the Throne, bitch

(It's 3 am why amn't I sleeping, I need to do things tomorrow...)

11/27/2013 1:25:17 AM


...I giggled, it was too perf.

And guess who's home for Thanksgiving? :D :D :D
Guess who's going to pretend finals aren't in less than 3 weeks??? *gentle sob, soft cry*

~*~  Whoops there goes all the bothers I give  (ノ◕ヮ◕)ノ*:・゚✧ ~*~ 

11/24/2013 3:19:40 PM



Yes. Good. It's so cute. :3

10/30/2013 2:59:33 PM






10/13/2013 10:42:34 PM

Did I just discover the femdom anthem?



I think I just discovered the femdom anthem.

"...But one thing I should know, is that I have the upper hand.
And if I do indulge, in showing him my plans,

one thing he should know is I can also wear the pants-

with my fucking heels on,
looking like a real strong woman...."

I can't, oh my god. I love it, it's so trippy and surreal and dark.

10/9/2013 1:49:42 PM

*twirls around*


All is now right with the world, because Pandora's Box. Apparently independent dommes or couples can rent out rooms and wowie wowzers, yes. 


The documentary is kind of old but they still exist and look so yes good.
I cannot word at the moment. I'm just happy~.

I don't think I could have put together a better dungeon if I tried. I just- gah, want.

10/8/2013 1:56:18 PM

*gently weeps*

Um, no, I don't think you guys understand. I get a page of unique messages every day. Not every week. Every day. And that is just my messages on collarme, and just my messages that actually make it past my bulk filter.

I have messages from over a month ago that I have not gotten to reply to yet because of how much I am bombarded on here, and I don't like being rude like that. If I ever have a good conversation or two and then a week later I haven't replied, it is not because I don't want to talk to you. It is because I LITERALLY CANNOT FIND YOU DEAR JEEBUS.


This is ridiculous.


I feel like I have to make a freaking FAQ or etiquette guide, and this is supposed to a fun aspect of my life. I'm tired of losing people I actually remotely tolerate if not actually like in a wave of messages or getting butthurt stuff from guys because it's been five minutes and I haven't replied to their message yet. Oh my GOD

*flops onto bed and re-evaluates life*


9/30/2013 8:16:17 AM

Oh my jeebus, I love this woman. <3

9/2/2013 8:39:39 PM



Has to be the best parody so far. X3
I can't stop listening to it.

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