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Well I like to be in control, but I’m not an out and out control freak nor do I hate men. I don’t see you as a worm or a worthless slave. I see everyone as an individual and I’d like you to see me as that too. Just as not all slaves or subs want to be considered a worm, not all Mistresses want to be seen as a walking latex catsuit. I’m happy to take into consideration some suggestions as our relationship develops but I’m not at all keen on being given direction, especially if it’s with a sense of entitlement or an attitude. I see a session as not so much about the activities or how they are choreographed, but more about our connection and me getting inside your head. I’m a very warm and personable woman outside of session, but I’m totally focused, in control and very much in the moment during sessions.
I’m increasingly drawn to the acronym RACK which, to those unaware, means Risk Aware Consensual Kink. Very little of what we do within the fetish community can be classed as 100% safe, much like lots of everyday activities. Most activities carry some degree of risk even if the likelihood of them occurring is quite small, we should not discount them. While I don’t think those activities can be classed as unsafe, it makes sense to me to gather the right information so that we can make them as safe as possible. Therefore, being fully aware of the risks, minimising the risks and us both taking responsibility for those risks is more in keeping with my way of thinking.
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