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Redefining and
Refining:
I'm a Loving, caring Domina who is also rather strict and very exacting. That quality will be apparent in both this description and in our exchanges from the very start.
I am straight-forward and no-nonsense; erudute and intellectual but also emotional.
I seek ONE submissive/slave, although I am not opposed to a poly situation which can be discussed at length after my main sub and I have a deep and healthy understanding of each other.
My goals and desires are something more meaningful and with more depth than simply "play" sessions. I can get those at the drop of a hat but I have avoided most of them because they are lifeless --- like being in a play: a role but not reality.
I'm mostly looking for chemistry and for a meeting of both the minds and the hearts/souls, so to speak. The details have to develop organically from who we are as people AND who are a Domme and a sub.
While you can see that my friends here are primarily ones with a strong penchant for CD/TV/TG, I do NOT rule out one who is not wired for that.
Only submissives who are UNATTACHED and who are emotionally secure will be considered.
Stability is a requirement.
Would primarily like to find one who wants to consider developing a serious, committed relationship with me.
I'm still ABSOLUTELY not accepting NSA playmates.
BDSM requires a high level of trust and a good amount of self-knowledge. In addition, I require devotion. That may be part-time but devotion to me is NOT possible when you have a primary loyalty to a wife/mate. Also, what does that tell me about your potential loyalty to me?
In my relationships, I tend to be the 'hubby' and I look to a partner to be more the 'wife.'
I am DD free and have never had an STD. I plan on keeping that status.
I am perfectly comfortable in the vanilla world and am open to living that way or to being more 'out' if that is more appropriate for the one(s) I choose.
I am also perfectly comfortable with a trans at any stage of the transformation. I would be with a woman as long as she is the right woman for me.
I am now working from home and taking classes I am still NOT compensated to reflect how hard I work and all that I do. C'est la vie, I guess. ! I would LOVE to be able to support a wife and have her simply be a homemaker but that is NOT my current circumstance. As I said below:
Although I seek a wife, I am NOT currently going to seek nor accept someone who is not self-supporting. I am self-supporting and intend to remain so unless very strong circumstances dictate otherwise.
I am flexible when it comes to my 'wife.' I may be able to go into a REVERSE 50's style relationship in the future; at this point, I prefer my wife work too, at least part-time, though this may change.
I NEED someone articulate and well-rounded. I have a large number of interests outside of the bdsm world which I wish to be able to share.
I really have no interest in chatting with people with blank profiles. Who are you? Do you truly have nothing to say to the world?
Lastly, disappearing acts are for flakes. If you choose to take your leave, a polite goodbye is the least you can do. This is particularly true if you have left off with promises to return or more.
People in the bdsm world often know each other, particularly Dommes. There just are not that many of us and we often share notes with each other about supposed submissives/slaves and others who have misbehaved, been disrespectful, or otherwise cause us to warn one another.
Just a word to the wise......
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