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	Prospective submissives....please read profile entirely. Back again after a long time having a great relationship with a wonderful submissive woman. Searching for one like her again. We had a fantastic five year relationiship but she was ready to move onto marriage...and as I am married I could not accomodate. Just a few housekeeping items here...I am married and have children. I am not searching to change that. My wife suffers from a genetic disease that prevents her from fulfilling this part of my life. While she is aware that I have these needs she does not want to be part or parcel to them. Basically, turning a blind eye to it but otherwise being happliy married. I am searching for a woman that is interested in serving or learning to serve a man. A woman that craves to be controlled, guided, aided in her desire to serve. I am fair, even tempered...one could even say light hearted and happy...always easy to smile and laugh. That being stated, I am also decidedly dominant and controlling. I enjoy teaching a woman to please me both sexually and socially and am more than willing to correct when not done to my satisfaction. Those corrections can be mild...maybe I did not explain myself so that my submissive understood to out right punishment and humilation...it depends upon the situation and the level and quality of training I have provided. In the end, it is my position that it is up to me to make sure that a submissive is properly instructed in her duties and what it means to please me. I have been a Dominant man my entire life...being a part of the "lifestyle" while not even being aware of it for many years or even knowing how to define it. I enjoy greatly the gift that is woman's submission. Knowing full well that some of what she is doing has nothing to do with her pleasure but soley her interest in pleasing and satisfying her man in any way that she can. If you are searching for a steady, experienced dominant man to guide, train, encourage, and broaden your horizons who is safe, sane, and appreciative of your gift and understanding of your need to learn and please a man it would be great to hear from you.

10/11/2011 10:35:19 AM

10/11/2011

In the past couple of days I have been able to chat with several submissives...not really about any thing in particular...just what they are searching for and what their needs and desires are. They have been very enjoyable. It seems that there are so many lost souls out there searching for something to complete them...or in several cases...an understanding of why they crave what they do. It has been nice to be able to share my life experiences with them and I hope that it has helped.

10/8/2011 6:44:28 AM

10/8/2011

And so the search begins...It has been so long since I have been here. However, it doesn't seem that much has changed in all of those years. I read with interest all of the journal entries of women that want something real and a dominant worth having and the frustration of not being able to find such a relationship.

As I begin my own search for the right woman I am forced to remember just how rare this is. Honesty is hard to come by...more so honesty with ourselves. We are always worried how we are going to be perceived by those to which we are attracted. With this in mind I know that there will be many false starts and some significant disappointments. However, having been this way my entire adult life, I know just how wonderful it can be when found. The openess, the honesty, the shared committment, the trust, and the physical aspects are truly amazing.