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The dynamic I seek would be as if she were my on-call personal whore though no money would change hands and she’d become emotionally ensnared. She will not take issue or be influenced in the fact that I am married.
I would value a dedicated, intense, local play toy.The premise would be that, when formally signing up, she'd give her OK to be sexually taken without any additional permission being asked and in particular when her arrousal level is high.
I understand that the premise of "anywhere, anytime" (such as even when her arousal level is low) might seem better yet but in my experience, that tends to mess up a person's mental wiring and achieves the opposite effect of what I'm going for, which is someone always eager for my presence.
My intent is that in most cases you will be for my pleasure only however you may on occasion be shared by a few very select friends.
I would obviously be enthused to have the sub in my bed and my life, but the dynamic would be "but of course" and not "oh wow, thank you so very much." Again, you will accept that this is first and foremost about me and you are secondary in my life. This does not mean you will not be respected and not have a place in my life, just that you know that place upfront and are in agreement. I would value her as my owned fuck-toy and if she can get enough psychological value out of that dynamic, great. She'd be highly valued but not in a romantic way, but rather as sexualized property.
To start, I would audition her over a cup of coffee, in public for a period an hour or two. During that I'd like to see how many of the strengths in her profile (e.g., exhibitionism) she can pack into that one performance. We would choose an out-of-the-way place where she isn't likely to run into friends and family.
If things go well she would assume her new position effective immediately.
For that she needs to have reason to believe this is what she wants and that there's no reason to believe it'd be unsafe, so I expect her to do much due diligence as to me. I intend to answer any questions she has, including via email or phone. She's welcome to bring in others too, to ask questions.
On an unromantic note, she should expect some rigorous interaction as to STD issues.
I'm not choosing the sub to be the mother of my children, so I also need to know her policy on abortion and birth control.
I would need to know her mental health history and any chemical dependency issues and any criminal record issues.
Going forward, I would expect to be the social and sexual focal point of her life. When I'm not with her, daily contact is expected long-distance:
- A "good-morning" and "good night" text message
- Emails explaining what she is thinking and feeling
- Emails sharing her day's ups and downs
- Being willing to take calls from me immediately or getting back to me within an hour with negligible exceptions.
I would enjoy tasking her with sexually themed activities whether I'm with her that day or not.
I would expect she would have wound down any extracurricular sexual activities and to focus her sexual energies on my agenda.
Although she'd be owned, I've seen even some very dedicated people be overwhelmed. My intent isn't to break her (though breaking her in is fine) so she does get to use the safe-words of "yellow" and "red."
As my sub, she would expect to be sexualized more and more, in terms of her mind-set, appearance, experience, etc. She would experience more and more intense sensations and activities.
That said, I understand that each sub has a normal life and I don't expect her to jeopardize that. She can dress and be as vanilla as she wants for events with her family, work, friends, etc. That said, if she is ready to be sexualized even then, e.g., to wear some interesting things underneath her clothes while at work, then that would be welcomed.
If you’re ready for the life of an on-call whore, but with no money changing hands, and for eroticism to become like an underground river, ever-present in your life even if not always visible, you’re ready. Plan out some safety-related questions, and contact me.
I’d find it to be a nice gesture if you started the email with uncharacteristic candor, e.g., “Andre, Yes! I want to be your personal whore / stripper / fuck-toy.”
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