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A rebirth, perhaps. Formerly mastermike2009. More coming.
Edit history:
8/23/12 3:55 PM EDT - Added section defining who I am
4:05 PM EDT - Added seeking section
Defining who I am:
Above all else, and before all, I am unique. I do not fit into any cookie cutter. My traits and interests are mine and mine alone. I have been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for quite some time. A Google search went pretty off-track one day and I got hooked. I read whatever I could get my hands on that was instructional; I do not care for literotica as much as the writing seldom reaches the par for which it would take to impress me. I gradually put these things into practice, introducing two former female friends, then girlfriends, into kink. I know who I am. I know what I want. I will stop at nothing to get what I want. I do not settle.
The person I am today is the product of a lot of reading, some experience, and the effort I have made to refine who I am as a Dominant. The core values I stand for reflect this best. As a potential submissive, if these resonate with you as well as they do me, you are well on your way to capturing my interest and attention.
Loyalty: to self, others, and growth. For me, loyalty is possibly one of the most defining characteristics of my persona; if you earn my trust, you earn my loyalty. A submissive must act the same way - loyal to a fault to her Dominant. Failure in loyalty is failure in trust. All BDSM relationships are built on trust.
Freedom of expression: This has the potential to get one in trouble. In my earlier days, it did. Look at it like an instagram photo with no filter. An open mouth without a filter in the wrong place and time could cause quite a few problems. However, freedom to express is a second pillar of BDSM - BDSM in and of itself is an expression of sexuality and of a person's true self. Many choose to filter it in public; rightfully so in this day and age; but, in private, a freely expressed submissive is a beautiful one. I encourage complete openness of both thought and body.
Growth: mental, physical, and sexual. The last of the three core values. There's a quote engraved on a building at my now alma mater: "The half of knowledge is knowing where to find knowledge." If you are truly interested in becoming a part of BDSM - or remaining within it, then learning is a very important part of the lifestyle. Learn about yourself, your fetishes, your emotions, or about the lifestyle in general, but be willing to do reading and learning.
There you have it. Three core values. If you feel these fit you, expect to be at the front of the line. But also be able to explain why you embody these three qualities. In detail.
What I am looking for:
Sex: Female; non-transgendered, Couples Sub/Sub, Couples Female Switch/Sub
Age: 18+
Orientation: Submissive or slave
Sexuality: Indifferent. All sexualities are considered.
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