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| Experienced Dom looking to return to play after a rather prolonged purgatory of a vanilla relationship. Professional with a certain recognition factor that requires absolute discretion. I am particularly interested in new subs, or "thinkin' about it subs", but all experience levels are possible. I have had several subs over the years and in each case my old sub introduced me to my new sub who was always a friend, or girlfriend who had confided in my sub that they wanted to explore their submissive side. Every D/S relationship has ended in the best of terms.
A few guidelines I rely on:
1) If it is not fun the sub, it isn't fun for me.
2) My sub's safe word is sacrosanct and honored Immediately. Not doing so is the best way in world to screw up the trust you are building.
3) The more you communicate, the more trust you develop and the better Dom you become, and the better sub she becomes.
5) Playtime should last hours and hours. There is no rush. Patience, the sub isn't going anywhere.
6) Unfortunately, some Doms are just mean SOBs and have confused discipline and control with violence. Teach your sub the difference by staying in control.
and finally:
7) There is no better sight in the world than that of my sub looking up at me as I put my collar on her before play.
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