I am not seeking perfection, however I believe you should do the best you can and always be learning. Life is all about change and adapting to your surroundings and partner. Intimacy and BDSM all depend on feelings and exploring common interests and likes.

Traditional in some ways, modern in others, and against the grain at times.  Like to see who I'm talking with and determine if there is a physical as well as of course a mental connection.   I live in South East Asia, life is good here.  Warm weather, friendly people, good food.   I'm not looking to move.  Happy to host you to see if we get along and perhaps develop into something long term.  

Kinks & interests depend on my partner's limitations and interests.   Not looking for a doormat and not looking for vanilla.  No pain, no blood, no group sex. 

Anything in between is good.   The most important part is a mental and physical connection. 

Limits: Must be non-smoking.  Polite.