Something I do not get. I see these girls getting upset that a Master wants to have some kindness in the relationship.
The thing is that no person responds to only negative reinforcement. It eventually will break anyone.
Plus we need to reinforce the behaviour we want you to exhibit.
That reinforcement doesn't have to be flowers and candy. It could be a good ass raping if that is what you need.
It also doesn't mean you are in charge. It means the Master knows what to use to motivate you.
That ass raping may be pleasure for you but torture for another.
A good Master needs to know you as well or better than you know yourself. He needs to be able to read your moods and needs.
It's not to please you but to control you.
I have to know how to punish you and make sure you know it is punishment. I cannot have you acting to be punished because you crave that punishment.
If you like being beaten it is not a punishment. It is a reward.
If you do not like it then it is a punishment.
Do not mistake seeking information for weakness. While it maybe in some cases, but a bit of kindness is like a touch of salt in a sweet dessert. It makes things pop just a bit more.
Imagine spending the afternoon being used on a carpet Rug burns on your ass. Going out for supper. Dressed up as I want. A short skirt without panties and you are sitting on a leather seat. It clings to your rug burns. Each time you move the rug burns sing out their pain to you.
So it it a reward or punishment?
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