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Mature, accomplished and responsible man, long term experienced in D/s,M/s. I am interested in a female submissive for short-medium term or (ideally) a lifelong real life relationship. I'm straight and not a switch, nor will I switch, nor do I do online-only or cyber. I'm a caring alpha leader, affectionate, energetic, very well-educated, well-off and accomplished, stable, responsible, dependable, firm, protective, with a desire to develop a monogamous long term relationship and ownership where both of us develop to our eventual full potential, which could be D/s or M/s. My body is in great shape, lean and toned.
Submissive women I've known have given me something special that nothing else in this world can match. And that is the extreme pleasure of their trust in me as a man whom they see as worthy of their submission and a source of safety, structure, security, nurturing, control, guidance, leadership, reliability and . They also enjoy my capability to put them in exciting, compelling and enjoyable situations they've previously only dreamed of experiencing. I take those responsibilities very seriously.

I can provide an exceptional life-long nurturing, rapturous and captivating ownership dynamic to a very caring and responsible submissive woman.

Understanding your needs is important to being able to own, guide and dominate you most thoroughly, by giving you the feelings that you need to be my ultimate submissive or slave. The ultimate feelings, however will be those internal feelings you get from pleasing and being indispensable to me. I seek to eventually own one who is truly submissive, honest, trustworthy, intelligent, willing, responsive, HWP, and has an overriding focus; on pleasing me, being guided, contained, owned and dominated very thoroughly, and being everything I want you to be for me and yourself! Together, you and I will form a very intimate, trusting and fulfilling relationship. I am however also open to developing friendships, training others and D/s activities in general.
3/31/2012 9:43:05 AM

...this was written by a respected Dom in the community...sorry I don't know who, because I got it from a sub's profile without attribution.  But the Dom who wrote it did a very good job explaining the characteristics of D/s  so  read and expand your knowledge...........

" By the 1980s D/s started to emerge because some found SM not to be what they were really into. It is about the energy exchange between two people rather than about what their bodies do in a scene. It attracted mostly heterosexuals who were in on going relationships and not those seeking casual play. It was this group that coined the terms Dominant and submissive as nouns that described what people were rather than a role they played during a scene. D/s is a 24/7 Lifestyle. It is not over when a scene is over. For D/s energy exchanges to work there needs to be a good connection between the partners. They must respect each other, trust each other and be able to develop affection for each other."

VONDERBITCH
 
 Age: 20
 Rockwall, Texas