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Who am I?

Like many here I discovered this lifestyle at a young age in an online chat room and immediately realized that it was a natural fit for me. That was over 12 years ago and since that time Ive had several fulfilling though short lived Ds relationships with women who each had qualities I was seeking but lacked the entire package that I need to be happy long-term. Ive always had a very dominant personality and tend to be the person who takes the lead in all facets of my life. I also however understand that with that power also comes great responsibility and I am not simply seeking a partner to control but rather a partner to love, cherish and nurture into the best possible version of herself. I believe this relationship dynamic to be a mutual one in which two people with specific needs come together to fulfill one anothers desires. I have a natural desire to drive myself and my partner thorough the journey of life and I seek a woman who has a natural desire to take my hand and see the sights along the way. In my vanilla life I am a successful professional with a flourishing career that Im unwilling to risk by posting a pic here, but Im willing to send one when Im comfortable. I have many interests from travel to music to movies to sports.

What am I seeking?

As I alluded to in the previous section, I am seeking a naturally submissive woman who desires a lifelong relationship. I have spent the last 12 years refining what Im seeking through trial and error and can typically know whether or not a woman may be the woman I seek within an hour of conversation. I seek a woman who is intelligent and can hold my interest in a conversation. I seek a woman who is very affectionate and is very comfortable with her sexuality. I seek a woman who delights in taking care of her man domestically and doesnt see it as a burden. I am seeking a woman would thrive in a dynamic with rules and discipline for breaking those rules. A woman who appreciates all that her man brings to the table and understands that he desires control out of love and care not to use our hurt her. I seek a woman who shares my interests with whom I can forge a vanilla bond as well as a Ds one.

Im willing to answer any question here and welcome them if you believe we may be a good match.

wilderfinder
 
 Age: 29
  New Jersey