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"How can there be laughter, how can there be pleasure, when the whole world is burning? When ye are in deep darkness, will ye not ask for a lamp?" ---the Buddha For better or worse, I generally respond to a profile that catches my eye with a simple hello, for an introduction. I know these "one line" responses annoy some submissives, but I feel that it's an appropriate response for initial contact.
I can deliver verbal humiliation, if it's your kink, but that only comes if and when I possess you. I start off asking many mundane questions like "where did you grow up? what type of work do you do? what do you like to read?" My reason for these questions are simple: I want to discern that you have some regular interests; I like to hear peoples' stories. And quite frankly, it's the civilized thing to do when connecting for the first time. So I'm not going to send you a letter stating what I'm going to do to you, in the context of a D/s relationship, which comes across as some contrived, lame, article in a porno magazine. Online Domination is lame.
Alright, enough of the rant. Nobody likes a whiner. I am a swm. I keep pretty fit. I have a leaner musc bld. dark brown hair/eyes. So if you like a Dom lean, but not really mean, maybe a bit grumpy at times, that's me. I have a closely trimmed beard. No ZZtop. I have many interests: reading, science, the arts, writing, travel, fitness and nutrition. I could go on and on but you get the general idea. If you're looking for a sadist pass me by. Although some corrective measures can be employed for misbehavior, I get absolutely no pleasure from inflicting serious damage on another person. I am not interested in anything that can cause serious injury, or worse, on another person, just good old fashioned Dominance.
I am looking for a woman who is intelligent; I am not attracted to bimbos. A woman who has ideas and opinions, but will defer to me if I feel necessary. Are you a woman who needs a Dom to exert a certain amount of control over your life without being a micromanager? This does not not mean that I have to be physically present 24/7 in your life. I prefer a submissive who is perfectly comfortable with little or no privacy when alone with her Dom.
Human beings both inspire and disgust me with equal measure. I prefer women who love to dote on their men. Many men might find this suffocating, but I don't. "Where books are burned, they will, in the end, burn people, too." ----Heinrich Heine "With all thy likeness to God, thou'lt yet be a sorry example!" ----Goethe, Faust I am a spirtual person, but I don't subscribe to any particular religion, although I'm fascinated by religion, including the ancient cave paintings found throughout the world-- and I've come across ALOT of hypocrites in religion, but I probably wouldn't bode well with a hard core atheist . One of my favorite quotes comes from the Upanishad's--Hindu Mystics "Truth is one, the sages' speak of it by many names." " Everyone is a visionary if you scratch deep enough. But the Celt is a visionary without scratching." --- W.B. Yeats I love Science. I also love the humanities. I am not really interested in all the fetish toys of this lifestyle. They might be a bonus for play, but I prefer a woman who is bound to me emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. Physical bonds can be broken, and don't last a lifetime. I prefer a dissatisfied look to shouting when I'm displeased. If I have to shout at you to get your attention, I haven't done a very good job at being a Dom. I'm actually somewhat soft spoken (don't take this for weakness), and I hate loud mouths whether male or female, who rarely think before opening their mouths. It is said that Abraham Lincoln talked slowly. This is because he actually pondered and reflected on his words before he spoke. A sign of an engaged intellect. I do have a bit of a breast fetish--natural breasts, and that usually coincides with a curvy body. " Cultivate what the public reproaches you for---it's you" ---Jean Cocteau "Brother, I have not lost courage and I do not feel dispirited. Life is everywhere, life is within ourselves and not in externals. There will be people around me, and to be a man among men, to remain so forever and not to lose hope and give up, however hard things may be--that is what life is, that is its purpose. I have come to realize this. This idea has now become part of my flesh and blood. Yes, this is the truth! The head that created, that lived by the superior life of art, that recognized and became used to the highest spiritual values, that head has already been lopped off my shoulders. What is left is the memories and the images that I have already created but had not yet given form to. They will lacerate and torment me now, it is true! But I have, inside me, that same heart, that same flesh and blood that can still love and suffer and pity and remember--and this, after all, is life...good-by, brother, don't grieve for me" --Dostoevsky in a letter to his brother prior to being sent to Siberia, for "revolutionary activities" Will any of this mean that we'll be together the rest of our lives? Maybe; maybe not. But I definitely want to be someone whom you'll think about from time to time for the rest of your life( hopefully in a mostly positive way). If interested drop me a line. Though I am spiritual---and not of any particular religious bent, I find the passage below a very powerful statement on the human condition. You can separate the religious context without too much trouble. "He who has ears capable of understanding, let him hear and understand. He who had made slaves will become a slave. He who who has killed by the sword must also be killed by the sword. Such is the faith of saints and it is for this that they suffer with patience. In accordance with the immutable laws of equilibrium, all excesses provoke contrary excesses, evil is punished by evil, violence provokes violence. Crime bears its punishment within itself and the oppressor will sooner or later become the oppressed. He who has understanding, let him calculate the number of the beast, for this is the number of man, and this number is six hundred sixty-six."

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 Age: 30
 Jacksonville, Florida