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| BDSM, its not about some rule book. Its not even about what someone else feels would it should be. It is something extremely personal, We all take away from this only those things that work for us. Some will say that slavery is about being nothing more then a household object, a fuck toy, an animal, piece of furniture, whatever other word for it you want. However to me slavery means to accept who you are deep down, to accept it and pursue that path that is right for you. This life isn't about fitting in, its about finding that path that fits you. Once you find your path stick to it.
Domination, What does it mean to be Dominant? Well some will say its being superior to others, others will say its being in control......Yet on here most of the Doms seem to be complete idiots (no offense to the few intelligent people in the world) Here is what I say to those dominants that can't show the smallest sliver of respect to anyone, Get over yourself your not gods gift to anyone. You are just you. Yeah sure you can make someone feel low, that doesn't mean anything the true test of a mans character isn't the amount of people he puts down, its the amount of people he lifts up. Try it sometime, Respect is something that is earned, not demanded.
If the only way for you to have control over someone is to make them feel like shit then I can honestly say, your not a Dom, your an abusive bully who gives the rest of us bad names.
Guess it's time for a little bit of an update, moving back to Cali in a few months, would love getting to know someone before that.
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