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How did you come to accept this lifestyle?
Have you always had these hidden thoughts, feelings and desires starting from a young age? Fantasies as a child of the other children tying you to trees playing cops and robbers or wrestling you to the ground to humiliate and bully you.
Or perhaps it came later in life..after a marriage perhaps? Or a long, vanilla relationship..your futile attempt at a "normal" life when secretly in your mind it was this life that you craved; and it took the ending of those relationships and further self discovery to accept where you belong, as a slave and servant to a Superior being. A Dominant man or woman.
Finally at that crossroads in your life, it is time for a New Beginning.
A life where you can live your fantasy day to day and shed the monotony of the vanilla world in exchange for the one of service you've craved for so long in your dreams.
I've been there too, though on the opposite end of the spectrum, as a Dom. I understand what it's like to live in denial of who and what you are.
The secrets, the fear of being discovered..but no more. It was time that I became the Master of my own life, and in turn the Master of others; as that was truly the life I wished to live.
About me..
I'm an Alpha, you may even consider me a Wolf or a Daddy if you'd like.
I'm an attractive, intelligent and independent Dominant with five years active, 24/7 involvement in the BDSM lifestyle, and more years than that inactive but aware.
I spent the last few years of my life secretly studying his lifestyle and it's many aspects as extensively as I was able, determined to develop an understanding and mastery of it all.
While not a sadist specifically, I do understand the importance of personal or physical discipline and punishment for poor behavior, but not to the extreme. I prefer to show my dominance and Superiority through Love, understanding and acceptance of the other person, an awareness of their limits and discipline; Preferring to teach and train through example, and demonstrate proper behavior through guidance. Also, with limited humiliation and degradation to establish humility and modesty.
It is my belief that Love is the very center of any strong D/s relationship, much like any other kind. Not specifically a romantic love, more a love of respect and acceptance. Every person on this beautiful planet is special and of worth, whether they are male or female, Dom or slave; And I do my best to emulate the same to all people. I feel that to love others is the most important thing a person can do in their life. To show another person, even someone you don't know that you care for them, that they MATTER to you and that you love them can make all the difference in the persons world. But that all comes with acceptance; While it may not always be an easy thing to do, I feel that to really love another person you have to work to accept he or she exactly as they are; Faults, past, trials and all. That's so important!
I have come to this site for the chance to begin my journey in bringing my dreams to reality. I am on this site for the sake of dating and meeting like minded people who share my interests and possibly my BDSM/lifestyle goals. I don't play casually, nor do I sleep around. I'm sort of the old-fashioned kind of guy. I hope it doesn't bother anyone, but that's just the sort of gentleman I am.
Very much the authoritative, professional father-figure type; for those who care to know. I take my responsibilities to myself and others very seriously.
Where I currently live, I will keep to myself for privacy reasons. Relocation is a great possibility however, I am keenly interested in moving to the country in the near future.. It's all very dependent on the situation, but a servant already located in a compatible area would be ideal for me.
I'm a sort of solitary creature..I live alone and enjoy my privacy. Though obviously I hope to change that very soon.
I live a pretty structured and discrete lifestyle interests. A good, solid structured lifestyle is the cornerstone of a smoothly run household, I've always thought.
I'm a biter..to those who deserve it. Who knew? ;D
Now, I suppose would be a good time to describe what I'm looking for. A lot of things, really.
I want to be served. Domestically, physically, emotionally, sexually..Perhaps not all by the same slave, but I'm sure with those responsibilities divided up appropriately amongst the other slaves my needs will be met.
I want to make you mine, to rule over you like the King that I am. It will be very clear to you and others who is boss.
But..just as important I want a human being. Someone with personality, class, tact and intelligence would be ideal.
Honesty, intelligence and integrity will get my attention, do try it out.
Clean, educated and obedient only please.
Also, don't tell me what you think I want to hear. I'm a good judge of people and character and I study human psychology and human behavioral patterns in my spare time..I'll know when you're not telling the truth.
What I want to hear is the truth, I want to hear you being yourself.
I don't want you to be perfect, I know that perfection is something worked towards, not immediate and oftentimes impossible.
I want to trust, own you and want you for your faults. Because to me, sometimes your faults are what make you the most compatible, they're what make you stand out from the rest.
As a wise man once said: Your flaws may be your perfection.
I have style and I have class, if you want to swim with the big fish please try to keep up.
Write me anytime.
-Sir Angelus
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What We're Looking For Now
I've been interested in the BDSM lifestyle for along, long time. First became involved in real-time a number of years ago when I moved out on my own. Been living it 24/7 ever since. I've had a few live-ins, and a good amount of experience in that time, both male and female. I'm working on settling down with it now, I have one live-in female pet, who has a Daddy/girl relationship with me as well. And we're currently on the lookout for a male house-slave, if that makes sense. For domestic use, housework, and a life of humiliation and degradation as the low man on the totem-pole. Message me to inquire further.
-Angelus
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THE SLAVE FAMILY
The MOST IMPORTANT thing is that you must want to and will become a member of a Master/slave family. That's right , a family. You become part of a family, with I as your Master and you and your brother/sister slaves each working together for the betterment of the house as a whole. You must be able to interact as part of a family without jealously, drama, or causing "waves".You will be under my direct command and I have the final say in the decisions.
We are building a family type unit and will function as such. We will eat together, sleep together and work together, literally. Some of us will work outside the household in order to deal with life’s needs such as paying bills, saving money for trips, and going to events etc. Myself and My slaves are currently working.
All slaves in this household will work at least part time outside the household, unless you are lucky enough to be independently wealthy and will help to support and maintain the household. We all save towards trips and excursions to lifestyle events and functions and when vacationing we all go together.
I guess the easiest way to look at it is, do not come into the house expecting to be someone special. You will be special only by being a great slave and serving your Master correctly.
My current slave is an alpha of all sister slaves and she will not be replaced. This does not mean that she is in control in any way other than when I am not at home or not available she knows how things are to work and will aid in the training of her sister slaves. Those coming into the house need to realize that this is not a power play. I am the Master and the order of the house is set by me. It does not need to be nor will it be redone; negotiated or changed in any way.
You must want to live the consensual slavery, total power exchange lifestyle 24/7. As a lifestyle not turn it on and off other than when necessary to avoid outing to family members. While I believe in and practice the rules of safety - sanity - consensuality I also like to test and expand limits. And your limits will be tested and expanded if possible.
I am a sadist to an extent; however it is reserved for those who enjoy severe activities. If you see anything in my profile that gets your attention drop me a note and let’s talk.
If you are the type of slave, that if told in the middle of a crowded room to strip and kneel at your Masters feet and you do it, then we have a good start. If you like BDSM as well as the Master/slave aspect of the lifestyle then we are getting closer to a match.
I will not pay your way to come to me to be my slave. Period, so don’t bother asking.
If you are truly interested in being an owned slave and being part of a poly family then contact me and let’s talk. No game players or thrill seekers, just those who are sincere.
Must be able and willing to relocate within a reasonable time frame as I am into living this not just talking about it. I am willing to train new slaves so long as you have a real desire.
If any part of the following list is things that get your blood and juices flowing then read on and let’s talk. These as well as other things are possible as well as probable.
bondage, rope, leather, suspension, single tailing, flogging, caning, paddles, sticks, clothes pin torture, erotic spankings, stripes, black & blue welts & bruises they leave behind, tens unit, piercings, tattoos, hot wax, fetish wear, leather, corsets, blindfolds, leashes, gags, dungeons, hair pulling, BDSM vacations, Travel, beaches, photography, camping, hiking, fishing.
A Quote:
"You say that my way of thinking cannot be tolerated? What of it? The man who alters his way of thinking to suit others is a fool. My way of thinking is the result of my reflections. It is part of my inner being, the way I am made. I do not contradict them, and would not even if I wished to. For my system, which you disapprove of is also my greatest comfort in life, the source of all my happiness -it means more to me than my life itself." Marquis de Sad
-Dom4NewBeginning
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After experiencing and researching the BDSM lifestyle firsthand over the past seven years, and comparing them with my own vanilla life experiences, I have found the following. If “vanilla” relationships followed the example of this lifestyle there would be less dishonesty, less unhappiness and fewer breakups.
To me, this lifestyle demonstrates those most important attributes that keep a relationship strong; it is safe, sane and consensual. To me, I think that being a slave means...having a person in their life that they feel totally comfortable with, someone whom they can trust enough to give up their very all to.
To trust every essence of their life and will with this person, to totally submit to them and willingly hand them the control of what they are and who they are.
Being in a D/s relationship means...total honesty between both parties involved without which there is no foundation for a solid relationship.
How can there ever be trust without honesty?
Above all else the truth must always be told, for without the TRUTH, you have nothing, nothing built on lies is very unstable and is guaranteed to fall, I believe the TRUTH is the most important part of a relationship between two people, it is the catalyst that will make or break any union.
To play at being insightful, I would suggest that a slave feels a deep need and want to just turn themselves over to someone whom they feel that kind of trust with, someone who will take it and take control, to make decisions, not leave everything for them to decide.
Someone to go to battle for them when they are wronged....instead of the other way around...shrugs Just a thought, anyway.
Thanks for reading. :)
-Dom4NewBeginning
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