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| The submissive woman I seek is married (or previously married) and "mature," and seeks a Master who has special sensiivity to her needs to be discreet and private. (This is simple, those who are not all these things have my respect, but they are not for me.) She may have explored this Realm considerably, or she may have little or no experience, but either way, she will have had the inner desire, curiosity and fantasy for much of her adult life...and my experience and inclination, primarily as Mentor/Teacher/Guide/Confidant/Advisor/friend, will benefit her need to learn and grow ...in a patient, caring, protective relationship. Her need for exploring erotic submission (and/or Dominance) is rooted in her inner intellectual, philosophical, psychological, emotional nature...she knows or suspects those are the true pathways to "subspace"...and that her surrender is coaxed more by conversation and meditation on this path than it is by the sensual, physical aspect, as important as those aspects are. Therefore, I don't check off a list of tools, toys and activities, since she knows those are to be discovered together...it doesn't matter whether I know how and when to hook up nipple clamps, it only matters that I know when and how to hook up her consciousness and bring us both the shared joys that follow. She will want and expect Master to insure discretion, preserving her privacy and her identity, for many reasons, not the least of which is to protect the value she has established in her marriage, family, career, social life in her vanilla realm...to be totally discreet is my first obligation to her. Therefore, while I expect her full surrender when with me, I defer to her schedule of availability...I am flexible, and will not press her for time that may run risks of "discovery" by others. In return, I maintain as much contact, in person, and otherwise, as fits her needs and availability. One never knows in advance how things will evolve, or not, but her intent and mine should be to hope for, and aim at, an ongoing relationship of communion with affection, friendship, respect and pleasure (plus plenty of jokes and mutual teasing sprinkled among the more serious moments). It takes strength to surrender...and wisdom to accept the surrender.
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