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Few things in life can be so frustrating as a submissive leaning man married to an equally submissive leaning woman. The dynamics and experience of a power-exchange relationship are rather skewed when neither part of a coupling has the desire to dominate. The sad result is that one or the other is forced to take the domineering position without truly being fulfilled in it. You are in love with each other, you adore those things in each other that are intrinsic to a loving and affectionate relationship, yet neither feels fully fulfilled by virtue of your unsatiated need to submit authority. Sex is wonderful, but something is always missing. Secretly you both want to share your submissive desires, to be humbled, to surrender your will to another. He feels as though she might be more satisfied physically by someone who can take her in hand. She secretly (or not so secretly) craves the attention of one who will bring her to fulfillment by creating an order that she must obey, and that he must accept. The love is there, but the longing is ignored for you both. I am the other side of that spectrum. I provide the order that you both crave. I will provide an order to which you must both answer. I will demand that the things you both crave be met without your silly pride standing between you and the submission your mind screams out for. he is cuckolded, secure in the knowledge that when it is over her affections, true affections will return to him. She is dominated and taken and punished and made to feel feminine and submissive by one who does not feel the need to garner her deepest affections.... her obedience is enough. Husband, imagine yourself locked in a chastity device and dressed in a maids uniform while you serve breakfast to your wife and her lover in bed, being made to thank him for his attentions to her. Imagine yourself looking into her eyes, knowing that she has spent the night accepting willingly from another things that she would never allow from you. Wife, imagine yourself being made accountable for the merest transgression from a man who has no interest in your protestations or sense of justice. His law, his rules, his demands are your compass. You serve him and submit yourself to him inside the bedroom and outside. In this servitude, your husband is your partner in adherence to those rules. You and he are answerable to the same authority, the same law. I am that law. The above isn't for everyone. It isn't easy to establish. It is a relationship that can take years to bring to fruition and even longer to bring to perfection. Yet, for the right couple and dominant man it can be worth the effort. I have spent many years as a dominant man, in fact all of my life. I have trained and disciplined my fair share of women until both their and my desires were kept in balanced harmony. Now my interests have changed. My desire is to extend my arena to include couples, or a special couple. My style is gentle domination coupled with creative and very stern discipline. I am loving and kind, but can also be aggressive and somewhat sadistic, depending on the circumstances. Beyond that, you will never know more unless you contact me.
BotKali
 
 Age: 29
  Florida