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Dom2forFem

We’re an experienced dom/me couple, known and respected on the scene, currently looking for a suitable female (sorry, that means no guys) slave or sub. Ideally, we’re looking for a long term, live-in relationship; but we are willing to consider other possibilities for the right person.

We live in a small Yorkshire village, backing onto open fields and near to woods, lake and a couple of nature reserves. The peak district is close by, and so you might guess, we’re often out in the countryside with our dogs.

We have our own business, which has several facets, showing our dogs and other animals being one, clairvoyance, natural healing and hypnotherapy being another.

Outside of bdsm, we enjoy things like listening to good music, visits to the theatre, opera and ballet, good films, reading, a nice meal in or out, preferably with a glass of wine and good conversation, and getting out and about. We also enjoy spending time with our various pets, which include 3 large dogs, several cats, rabbits, chipmunks, and a variety of other small animals. Some of these we show, and others are simply pets. We love them all dearly.

We’re not sadists, being rather more into the psychological and sensual sides of bdsm. That said, we enjoy a wide range of play based activities, and are always happy to explore new ideas. We don’t mind if you’re new to all this, or are more experienced; either way, we’ll respect your limits and help take you on to ever more fulfilling heights of experience.

We’re looking if possible to include you within our family structure, and to involve you both in our bdsm and vanilla lifestyle. Hence you’ll need to be happy to be around animals in the vanilla side of things. You must also not be freaked out by things like clairvoyance and psychism. We’ll teach you more about these as we go along; just as we’ll teach you more about the sensual pleasures to be experienced in good bdsm play. If 24/7 is what you’re looking for, you’ll be expected to provide some domestic help, as well as helping with our businesses. You’ll also be playing with either or both of us at various times, as well as accompanying us on outings to clubs. You won’t be staying locked in the house or anything; if we’re out in the country or at the coast, you’ll be with us; and you’ll also go with us on holidays, etc. Free time for you can also be negotiated, and we will encourage you to stay in touch with your family and friends. Whether you’re ultimately our slave or our sub will depend very much on the dynamic between us, and what you’re seeking; but you will not be abused. Either way, you will be a valued member of our household, with your contribution respected by both of us.

This is obviously just an initial outline, and there’s a lot we will need to talk about; everyone’s situation is different, and we’ll be happy to discuss your needs and wants to see if they can fit with ours. The main thing is, if you are interested by what we say here, get in touch, so we can begin to take things further.

Update - Due to change in circumstances, She is considering a playmate for herself.. if you think you have what it takes, message back. BTW she is really fussy and not seeking short term playmates.. Male or female considered, get in touch x

4/15/2010 5:20:21 AM
Domme says... Well this is a lovely profile and after all our life changes its nice to see that the words reflect both our needs. He is seeking a sexual playmate as well as someone who will respect his role as Dominant and Master of the household. Whereas although I love to play with others male or female, my priority is the running of the household, business and animals and will not deny I do need some helping hands there.. so you must be an animal lover. I love playing with floggers, tie and tease, or just a bit of sensual seduction, although I am devoted to my partner, so do not seek any other males to interact with me ...or him, so Im sorry but the door is closed to all but females (at present !) The female ideally will initially be a part time sub, friend first and foremost to both uf us, knowing this is a part of our life we are willing to share, but we have to find someone we gel with completely before further steps are taken. You will be (eventually !!) loved and respected by us both. Our vanilla life will be spent as vanilla friends and BDSM will be hidden from the public now, due to our business ventures..  however behind closed doors we are happy to discuss your needs and explore our own!

 You will be permitted to have your own relationship if sought, and your own time will be respected, as we will expect ours to be too.. We are not ogres, but acknowledge we have an area of our life that needs to be fulfilled. But it is not our priority.. just our playtime :)