Okay so here goes. I have obviously not had success with the out there in your face approach for what I am looking for. I suppose some of you out there think that I need to show my wit and word prowess on this profile. Well sorry I don't honestly see the point in spending hours pouring over a profile that honestly is probably not going to point me in the direction of what I seek anyway.?
I currently live in BFE Southwestern Kansas. I am having a bit of withdraw from the BDSM "scene/community" whatever since I was living just outside of Dallas Texas before. I am willing to drive a little ways but I am not going to spend all damn day in the car for coffee with a morbidly obese person who has low self esteem cause Daddy was mean to them. I am married and happily so to My best friend of 25+ years.?
Yes he is aware that I play in the lifestyle (how else would you explain being gone for 6-7 hours until who-knows what time in the morning after a munch and play party? No you cannot sleep with him and I am not looking for someone to Share with him or vis-versa. I am 27 fairly tall (5 ft 8ish) I am on the heavy side if you look at pounds (hovering right at about 200lbs) but if you just look at the number and don't take the time to get to know me to see my pic on how I carry that then so sorry for you.?
?I don't think that what I am looking for is too out of the question. I want a girl that is a submissive, I understand that we are all people and will have our moments. I want someone willing to learn the basics of what is termed "Gorean" ?I want a girl that is intelligent and witty and sometimes bratty. Someone that has a brain and can use it with fairly regular common sense.?
If you want to know more or want to chat I am not opposed. At first I was all " I don't want men contacting me blah blah whatever" But I thought about it and if it just for some?conversation?or chit chat about whatever that is cool hopefully you can read and tell that I am not looking for a male sub/switch/Dom in my life.
