It is rather obvious to me after spending some time on this site that it is nary impossible to find the woman I am seeking as my mistress. The term mistress has been used since I am married. Therefore, I have modified this profile to include the fact that I would like to develop friendships with some special woman. I do want to use the term sub or slave, for before a woman has interest to me in regard to her submissive desires, she must first be interesting as a woman. For me, that means a woman who has pride in herself, in her intellect, her accomplishments, her demeanor and personal appearance. A woman who is intelligent, self assured and self confident, and for whom being with a Dom is a matter of persnal choice, not of necessity. A woman who understands the pleasure in exploring erotic sexuality beyond the confines of our society's restrictive covenants. I value a woman who is mature, and maturity is not age specific, and values intellectual discourse. A woman who has pride in her personal appearance. In short, a woman who comes to this site with her head held high and who is proud of all that she has to offer.