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| I've been a Dom and Master in the lifestyle for several decades now and have trained and taught many different types of subs and slaves. I've taught classes and given lectures on training techniques and power dynamic relationships at seminars, events and conventions all over the USA. I've recently ended my relationship with my slave of the past 12 years and am looking to fill that void in my life by finding someone special to serve me, to own.
I am strict, yet fair. Firm, but I do listen. I believe in discipline and even punishment, but I also am a strong believer in the value of aftercare. I can even be cruel, but I also have a strong love of fun, laughter and even romance. Also, I have a wide array of kinks and fetishes, a strong sadistic streak, and feel that almost nothing is taboo or off limits.
You will find that many of my views about Master/slave dynamics are...unconventional. I am not one of the many out there "calling" themselves a Master. I don't hate women. I don't do this for a sense of power over someone weaker, nor to bolster my own insecurities. I do this because this is who and what I am. I trained and studied to learn just what being a Master means. Just because someone can swing a flogger and has fantasies of beating a woman whenever he wants and getting constant blowjobs, does NOT make them a Master. It makes them a fool. A dangerous fool. A slave's safety and well-being should always be first and foremost in a Master's mind.
I believe that it is a Man's place to lead, to protect, make decisions, to guide, nourish and help a woman to grow into her fullest potential both as a slave and as a female. I believe it is a woman's place to follow, to serve, please and obey in all things, to provide domestic as well as sexual service. To bring honor to her Master with everything she does, anywhere she goes and to whomever she meets.
I do believe that Masters and slaves, just as Dom's and subs, cannot exist one without the other. Each fulfills the needs of the other, just in different ways. They are flip sides of the same coin. One cannot be happy and fulfilled without the other. The slave needs a Master to serve, while the Master needs a slave to control and protect. I am of the belief that a good slave can build up the most disenfranchised man and in return that man pours his attentions and affections into that girl, helping her to become the best woman that she can be- Polite, kind, respectful, intelligent, beautiful, submissive, thankful and sexually attractive for all who look upon her. She should recognize that she is a man's property and that her place and purpose is on her knees, ready, willing and eager to serve, please and obey.
In this, I will train you, mold you, guide you and help you to shed everything that society has poured into your head about being "normal" since birth and to become someone who lives free from the worries of what society thinks. Free from the fears and boundaries that our world forces upon you in order to "fit in." You will be free to fully embrace your desires and fantasies, to live as you've longed for and to discover the freedom that giving all control to another can bring. I will give you a home, a purpose, protection, the training, and a safe place to explore your sexual desires. You will give me your loyaly, obedience, mind and body. Your life will not always be easy. But the rewards will be greater still.
Have a question? Don't be shy. You cannot shock me with anything and I promise you now, that I will always be open, honest and never judge.
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I've been asked many times over the years, what is the difference between a submissive and a slave? One could say, by common definition, that is submissive, gives up control, but only within the constraints of the bedroom. The submissive can set limits, boundaries and more. So, it's not truly giving up control, but they giving up of limited control within certain areas, usually limited to strictly sexual. The slave, on the other hand, gives up all control at all times, both within and outside the bedroom. Her limits may be observed by her or his master or mistress. But, they don't have to be. Furthermore, giving up of control usually applies to all areas of life, not just strictly sexual. Still, that can be seen as a rather limited definition.
if one truly wants to defined the difference between the two, it boils down to this. A submissive will give up control within the parameters of still satisfying her needs, wants and desires. A slave is able to sublimate her own needs, in order to put the needs of someone else before her own at all times.
That's the big difference. A submissive may give up control, even total control, but only within the duration of a scene, or a particular situation. A slave not only gives up control, but puts the needs of her master before her own at all times. A submissive can always say, "Not tonight. I'm not feeling up to it." A slave has no such options. Her place and purpose is to put the needs and wants of her Master ahead of her own, and if Master decides that he wants to use his slave, it's her place as a slave to meet and even exceed his expectations.
The problem is, with so many, having been raised with this being either fantasy or online role-play, combined with the Tinder culture expectation of "If this doesn't amuse me, I can just ghost him." It's becoming increasingly difficult to find those that truly have a slave mentality. So, those of you who are putting yourself out there as slaves, make sure that you understand the difference between submissives and slaves. Not only for your own benefit, but for the benefit of others as well. That way, no one's time is wasted, not expectations dashed and you'll be more successful at finding what it is you're truly looking for. |
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| Age: 46 |
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Florida |
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