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	Greetings... I have been away from the lifestyle for a number of years, but recently I've had some interaction and realized how much I've missed this aspect of my self, and how vanilla relationships are so terribly unsatisfying for me. BDSM for me is about control, Dominance, and although pain and restraint are an aspect of that, it's not the primary thing I am seeking. I am looking for a primary relationship with non 24/7 D/s aspects. Mainly I am looking for someone with whom to explore matters of both the erotic arts, and the heart. Respect, trust, and communication are key to me, and I am not looking for play (or sexuality) right off the bat. I need to make sure that there is trust, and that the scenario is compelling and satisfying for both of us. Ideally I'd find someone who would be interested first of all in private play, but I do enjoy going out to clubs. (BDSM and swing, although it has been years for both.) I am very respectful of hard limits, and if everyone's not having their needs met, then it's not the right situation. Also, I've been a professional photographer for 12 years, and I enjoy making erotic photo art, and would be open if anyone needs style work done. (for personal use or your profiles... nothing draws in the right person like a beautiful image.) Looking forward to knowing you, being able to look in your eyes, and have you on your knees before me. (However, my emails aren't "who has the biggest whip" emails, and I prefer to leave that language to actual play time. Not while we are getting to know each other)

9/23/2012 5:45:40 PM

So... a new venue to find a new playmate, and people who are interested in posing before my camera to make erotic and fetish photography... We'll see how this is. I enjoy quite a bit, but it's not the best for making new connections.

I've been out of "The Scene" for a long time, but the last 2 relationships really made me realize how much I've missed it and how I need to have a non-vanilla primary relationship. I am looking for someone to be a Princess out of the bedroom, and a Slut when we play. Someone who wants to be adored in life, and controlled in play. We'll see if we can find the right mix and chemistry, but I am fairly clear on what it is I want.

Anyone who reads this who ha good advice on use of the site, or good ways to initiate dialogue besides the normal "Here's my email telling you I am interested" way, let me know.

Doc