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| In search of friends....
First off....WOW...some of you ladies have been reading the '50 Shades' series huh? Good luck with THAT search!! lol. Men who are Dom are also generally the "swing" types but you go ahead and tell yourself otherwise, it's ok. :-)
Hello! I am sub/lifemate to this beautiful man in the picture. He's been hinting around about wanting to play more with others(we aren't conventional "swingers" but we do have friends we play with) so I thought I would take it upon myself to try and find him playmates. He is dominant, yes, and he would prefer another sub but he is very open to being Dommed by the right woman. That's right, WOMAN, no men please.
We are not in a huge hurry but we also aren't into emailing back and forth 80 times before we meet. NO CAMMING either. It's just weird.
Here's how it'll go: a few emails back and forth, then coffee in public, most likely in the morning or lunchtime. After that, we'll see if there's the right kind of chemistry for another date.
See? No pressure, no expectations. And if we end up as friends, great! We would LOVE more friends in "the lifestyle." (I hate that phrase.) We aren't mean-spirited or nasty vengeful types. If it doesn't work it doesn't work. We'll move on.
He's dominant but not domineering, yes there's a difference and he knows what it is.
We don't mind if you are new to this, we respect limits. We can get everything out in the open first, the way it SHOULD be done, before anyone gets anywhere near a bedroom. He also has a demented sense of humor that I love and I think you will, too. He has strong arms that you can just get lost in when he puts them around you. He is warm-hearted and lives to take care of his woman and see her grow and succeed. He has a natural talent for teaching lessons to subs, it's hard to explain but you'll get it once you meet him. He is a truly amazing man.
He is also a big fan of the "Daddy as head of household" dynamic, not so much the "I'll beat your ass until it bleeds" Dom style. Although, I must admit, I have indeed gotten the belt more than once for misbehaving. Ouch! He likes his women to be smart, funny, respectful, ambitious, and independent but yes, still submissive. We are out there! I'm proof of it! lol. Caring, loving, giving, thoughful, kind, sweet, glass-half-full type of girls are his favorites. Negative Nancys can stay at home. We all have bad days and we are understanding of that but if every day is bad, you need to look within yourself for the problem and not take it out on others who love you. And if you are the right fit for us, we will love you very much, as we are also very loving, caring and giving types.
We would love our play partners to stay in our lives as friends, not looking for fuck-and-run encounters. We are also very open to the idea of a polyfidelitous situation with the right people. So yeah, if you're already in a poly/open situation with man or woman, the more the merrier! Drop us a line! You don't have to be a single female, as long as your partner/s knows what's up.
Also, I am very very very bisexual so if you aren't, it's not a deal breaker but I would really love it if you could be...just a little? Please? lol.
Either one of us may be checking this email so be aware of that. I/ we hope to hear from some nice ladies very soon...
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