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Hetero Male Dominant, 43,  Cromwell, Connecticut
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Be real, be honest, and be yourself. That is all I ask. No one is perfect, I know for a fact that I am not, but it takes hard work, patience, and someone strong by your side to live the life you want. I want my girl to be fun, highly sexual, intelligent, naturally submissive, and ready for a long term relationship. This is not a lifestyle for me, it is who I am, what I need, and how I live my life. I respect traditional values, understand what it means to be the leader, and want to find someone who understands what it means to be led. I want to hold my girl like the man is doing in my profile photo. She will be mine, and will be treasured. I am the head of household, not one to trifle with, and intelligent enough to call your bluff. I have a sadistic streak, am highly sexual, and am and always will be naturally dominant. I am not bisexual, I have never switched, and I will never be anything but dominant. I seek someone who respects herself, does not smoke or do drugs, works hard, loves hard, plays hard, and lives an honest life. She will be my slave/sub, my best friend, my partner in cards, mine to hold, and selfless. If you understand the dynamic, then you will also understand that all the hard work is worth it in the end. Message me if I have intrigued you, or you are interested in learning more about me.













 Dominant Male



 Willing to Relocate

 5' 10"

 225 lbs






Actively Seeking:

Submissive Female

 Lives For:

 1950s Lifestyle (Expert)


 Amusement Parks

 Fine Dining





 You wearing my collar

 You wearing stockings

 Card Games

 Intellectual Discourse


 Lifestyle BDSM

 Victorian Lifestyle

 Country Music

 Rock Music

 Ice Hockey



 Bar Hopping




 Martial Arts


 Scuba Diving




 Blindfolding you

 Body Worship


 Breast Play


 Rear End Play

 Hair Pulling

 Orgasm Control


 Public Play


 Spanking you


 Board Games

 Comedy Shows

 Puzzle Games

 True Crime











 Seventies Music

 Body Building




 Sky Diving




 Curious About:





 Local BDSM Community


 TV Sports

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Journal Entries:
5/4/2014 4:53:36 PM

I was asked the other day what part of the country, in my opinion, had the most amazing submissive women populating it.  I thought about it and answered, "The midwest or south".  My friend thought about it for a second and agreed.  I also told him that I have a weakness for southern and midwest accents, which might be part of the reason I answered the way I did.


If you are from the midwest or south, I am willing to put in the time online, so that you can build trust between us, and I will either relocate to you, or you to me.  An amazing connection between two people will bridge any distance, so that they can be with the one who they connect with.


I am someone who makes it happen, who will not shy from a challenge, so let's start a dialog and see what happens.





6/24/2012 8:57:04 PM

"Say what you mean, and mean what you say."  I follow that myself, so should you, both in your profiles and in your life.  It makes life so much easier for you and the rest of us.

10/9/2011 10:52:06 AM

10/7/2011 9:10:05 PM


Great song

10/1/2011 9:30:07 PM

One thing I miss the most is burying my face in someone's hair, and falling asleep, knowing that she is mine.

9/25/2011 7:59:55 PM

There was once a time, when a woman said she loved you, she put aside her fears and prejudices to be with you, and never thought for a minute that life would be better without you or being single was what she needed to be.


The same applies to men, I guess.  Men these days I understand less...


I am just not sure anyone knows how to put aside their fears and love anymore.  To love like there is nothing more important.  It is hard, but isn't effort, bravery, and hard work, generally the prerequisites to reward??


There are too many selfish people these days.  No wonder there are wars all over the world right now, and people lie.  People lie about everything and anything these days.  What ever happened to people being honest, people being strong enough to admit that they are wrong?


There are just some things I will never understand in this insane world.

9/14/2011 8:17:33 PM

Yep, this is who I am...

9/11/2011 2:25:20 PM

It is nice to finally speak with someone intelligent, funny, and someone "who gets it".  Too bad she is all the way across the country. 


I am actually considering relocating soon, so maybe it will be back to California or somewhere in the south.  I love southern women and how real they are, as well as how many are raised the "right way" and are naturally submissive.


I know not many men are open to relocation, but I am.

8/9/2011 6:04:04 PM

Yes, there are liars and cowards on here.  I have met my share.  I do not wish to meet anymore.


I have ZERO tolerance for games, and so should you.


Message me if you are sincere and can be 100% honest with me.

7/19/2011 6:31:06 PM

Sometimes the sun breaks through the clouds, and the day turns into a glorious one. :)

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