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Grunt03
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(Short Edit) Any cubs out there? There's no way to determine who likes Cougars and doesn't mind the age difference. If there's a vast age difference, I won't hit on you because I don't know where you stand on this issue. But I'd love to hear from you if you live close and meet the criteria in the rest of my profile. My preference really is for MUCH younger men........Dominants or Tops........NO male subs. I won't/can't domme you back.
I had decided to never put up a profile at CM......the reasons don't matter now. But I find myself directing far too many to another site where I do have a profile...... and that is becoming tedious.
I also find myself having to exert much time and energy asking questions about subjects that you SHOULD HAVE included in your original pm.......or at the very least your second one.
Right now, I'm fed up with the quality of PMs I get.....and very close to giving up finding someone who really suits me..... so I'm going to write this one a little differently. Yes....it will have some positive, generalized information. But since so many don't seem to have the most rudimentary communication skills......I'm also going to specify what NOT to do or say. I'm also going to list a few potential "deal-breakers" about me for you. If you can't handle them.....then don't bother me. In other words, I spend a great deal of time trying to sincerely get to know people.......often spend several nights of PMs, then YIMs....... and it goes in the toilet anyway. Too much time, too much futile effort. I'm sure I'll continue to get scads of mail from those who don't read well.......and those who don't really have any reading comprehension........ and those who don't pay attention......and those too arrogant to abide by requests.....but it sure would be nice if I didn't.
I am a White, Southern, widowed female. I am NOT an out and out sub. I'm more of a bottom, a kinkster, a bedroom-only sub at rare times. I don't like orders or bullying......not until you know what you're doing with me.......and don't bet the farm that you know about me from any of your prior experience. Do not treat me like a "one-size-fits-all" sub. I don't want to kneel. I don't want to talk to you in a subservient, servile manner. I/i do not use that silly writing protocol such as I/i; We/we; Our/our. It's juvenile. The only options on the sign-up page are Dom/Sub/Switch/Slave. I am NONE of those things........and I don't want to be any of those things........but one must pick something.......so I picked "sub" out of necessity......not because it's correct.
DEAL-BREAKERS ABOUT ME.
There's no sense in you wasting any more time if you can't tolerate any of the 2 following things:
1. I smoke like a chimney..........no........I won't quit because you tell me to. And there'll be no "allowing me" to smoke or not........this is not up for negotiation.
2. I'm so conservative I'm reactionary. I do this (BDSM sites) for fun. I don't want to hear a bunch of elitist, knee-jerk liberal psychobabble preaching and sermonizing. Please pay particular attention to this if you reside up North or on the Left-Coast or many parts of Europe.
Do not pm me if you are a male sub, a couple, a bisexual female........or any other life form than a straight male Dom/Top.
Do not pm me if you are looking for a relocatable slave. Not interested.
Do not write me with a 2-3-4 word monosyllabic "sentence." "How are you" doesn't work. "Nice Ass" is a nice compliment......but doesn't do a thing to attract me. "I like your profile...call me" wins you no Brownie points.
Do not pm me if you are black. I will not, under any circumstances, cross that racial line.
If you are white and miscegeny is a current practice.........don't pm me. I don't want you.
If you have a really decent, complete profile (which includes your kinks)........then a nice, courteous short paragraph will do. If your profile says nothing........then include your profile before you hit send.
Introduce yourself. Tell me something about you. Tell me why you are interested in me and why you think I would be interested in you. Sign your pm with a name you wish to be called. (And I DO NOT mean "Sir" or "Master"...... you haven't earned it yet.) I'm fed up with the 2 or 3 word grunts.
I neither want nor need another husband. Nor would I do anything so stupid as committing to a monogamous relationship without knowing you very, very well........and probably not then. So don't PM me if you're looking for something permanent.
If you're "relocatable"..... I'm gonna want to know why. It sounds like you're a homeless bum and looking for a Sugar-Mama.
If you are unable to converse with decent grammar, spelling, punctuation, and vocabulary, don't pm me. We have nothing in common. Now take note...... once we both have identified the other as something more than a 3rd-grade drop-out..... you can get as sloppy and error-prone as you want on YIM.... I will too. But.... first impressions are very important.
Do not pm me if you don't have a sense of humor. I like to laugh.
Do not pm me and start discussing "training" me. Makes me feel like a damn hound dog.
Dittos for assigning me "tasks and chores". Sounds too much like housework. That's what I have a maid for. Those last 2 may be nothing more than a question of semantics..... but all 3 words make my skin crawl in a BDSM context. At least make the effort to fool and cajole me. I do have a submissive identity..... very, very deep.... and very, very intense. Only a very few rare men have ever been able to trigger it. But they all had the good sense to do some adapting to me first and arousing me to great heights before they demanded that I adapt to them.
Don't let me dominate you mentally. Because I'll do it........not out of contrariness......but because my "normal" nature is to be a force to be reckoned with. And..... though I hate to admit it.... some may be a subconscious effort to determine if you're man enough to handle me without pissing me off.
HARD-LIMITS
Extreme infliction of pain (such as branding).
Interracial
Breath Play, Hoods, Mummification, Extreme Bondage
ATM
ATP
Anything that leaves open wounds or scars.
The drinking part of Water Sports.
SOFTER LIMITS/TURN-OFFS
BUKKAKE
GANGBANG SCENES (WITH STRANGERS)
NON-STOP COCK SUCKING. (Yeah, yeah.....you might like it....but since I'm not a sub.....then I want to get my jollies, too.)
KK......I've had my say. It's long......but if you made it this far and aren't ready to kill me.....maybe there's something to you. I'm really real and I'm really looking for someone who can and will visit fairly frequently.
I am also evolving..... and discovering a gradually increasing masochistic side to me. I know I want to explore that some more.......slow and easy at first......but it's piquing my interest.
Dixie
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Still griping.........why can't men in the Southern States put their locations in? I just did a quick non-scientific test. I looked thru 3 pages each of Arkansas, Tennesse, Mississippi, Missouri, Oklahoma, Texas, and Louisiana......my state and the 6 surrounding it. Texas, Lousiana, and Missouri weren't bad.......but I'm closest to Tennessee and Mississippi and in Arkansas. The people who live in "State Only" ran worse than 50% Oklahoma was as bad. So.......are all you men Baptists or sumpin' and scared the preacher and your fellow deacons are gonna see you? Oh..... and I checked Alabama too......same thing. All you guys are homeless, I guess. Why are you scared shitless to put in your location or at least a nearby town? Do you realize that it cuts down on interest when we don't know where you are? Why should I waste my time writing to someone and then find out he's 200-300 miles away........400+ miles for the far eastern reaches of Tennessee.
Then I hit some states like Michigan, Illinois, Ohio, Pennsylvania, New York, and I don't remember where else. EVERY DAMNYANKEE has a location. You get about 2 names out of every 3 pages (24 names) that don't state their whereabouts.
I'm not going anywhere. I bet there's more women just like me. I want to meet men within driving distance. Ya'll gripe and bitch about the fakes and frauds on here and that you can't meet anyone. Well........I've figured out one of the reasons why and the fault is pointed directly at ya'll.
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Just a few kindly-meant hints to you Southern gentlemen. Yes, I know this is the Bible-Belt and most of you are leery of revealing too much about yourselves. And, I'm a Southern girl so you all know that I've been raised to let the male make the first advance. Therefore, I'm not really comfortable contacting you first. But..... I would..... if you would just edit your profiles for a little teeny-weeny bit of added or updated detail.
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Please reveal your hometown or a least a place fairly close. Seems like all of you live in Arkansas, or Mississippi, or Tennessee. WHERE in Arkansas, Mississippi, or Tennessee? I'm not interesting in online or long distance. And I'm not planning on moving. So..... it would be nice to know if you were within a reasonable distance. You may have an 8 inch Mr. Happy..... but it's not doing me a bit of good if it lives in Ft. Smith or Pascagoula or Chattanooga.
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Please state whether you are free to play at your discretion (that means do you have any quarrelsome issues about your extra-curricular activities from wives, girl friends, room-mates, significant others, mothers, sisters, the family dog, et al?) I understand you may have work commitments to consider and can't jump in your car at my beck-and-call just because I get a little squirmy. (Well.....you better have work commitments..... or be retired..... or just be filthy rich.) But if it's IMPOSSIBLE for you to establish any kind of regular, real-life, face-to-face relationship..... then I'm not the woman for you and it would be ever so kind of you to keep me from wasting a lot of time.
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Please put up at least an avatar that you think reflects yourself..... your sexual persona would be nice. Why? Because I keep my settings on “photo-only”. Why? Because I've randomly sampled and figured out that the ones who have no pic or avatar are likely not to have much of a profile..... which gives me zilch to base a decision on.
There..... wasn't that easy? Where are you in relation to me? Are you available? Does your profile stand out on the site?
Okey-dokey..... I'm done for awhile. Just had to get a few things off my chest. It's amazing how damn hard it is to give away perfectly good pussy.
Thank you ever so much, gentlemen..... you may return to your naughty pictures now. I do hope you found this little list of helpful hints useful to your pursuits. |
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| Age: 34 |
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