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Disparage

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2020 update - I'm happily married - if you see me on here I'm looking for play partners for her only now...she is Illyria on fet - due to the dysfunctional local community we can't seem to keep a bdsm club open, and I like for her to have the occasional impact scene w/another Dominant. We still get out to cons when avail - but nice to see whats local to us I've been in the swinging lifestyle 15yrs, & into BDSM 2yrs. Im looking to build a relationshp w/a sub who is experienced, enjoys sex, & is eager to please. While I am dominant in the bedroom, I am looking for someone who is my equal in intelligence, & has her life together (safe, sane, employed...all of that)

I have a military background, & I guess it's fair to say that I am more into the control aspect than inflicting pain. A sense of humor is always appreciated - if you cant laugh at yourself, I will.

I am looking for more than just sex, & I might find the girl Im looking for in a bar, but the odds seem pretty remote (& dont even get me started on eharmony & the like)

If you email me I can guarantee that I will respond, so if you have any questions feel free to ask.
5/10/2010 9:40:25 PM
I know I know...it's late. I'm still up due to a special project @ work - while I'm bored & waiting for this database to update I can peruse this site hoping to find the love of my life (or at least for the weekend)
2/28/2010 8:37:15 PM
Very weird vanilla date this past weekend. Beautiful girl - friend of a friend - has a 10 yr old daughter who just got veneers for her front teeth so she can compete in a beauty pageant. What? It's phenomenal how much money she is spending on this "hobby" - Pageant Fees, Travel, Costumes, Makeup, Tanning...you name it. I try not to judge others, be it their kink or their parenting skills, but she gave me the creeps.
2/25/2010 7:36:46 PM
Started working from home full time last week  - thought it would give me a lot more free time, instead I'm turning into a workaholic. If you see me on here & it's after midnight - tell me to go to bed
HeatherLynn
 
 Age: 55
 Everett, Washington