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submissive, slave, switch, it doesn't matter. What matters is how you align with what I am seeking. I am strict, have high expectations, and rules will be enforced. Period. On the other side of that coin though, know that I am patient, understanding, and can nurture as well. If the thought of serving a Dominant man with your heart, mind, body, and soul is what you desire, read on. your purpose is simple: to serve me, to pleasure me, to obey, and to learn. If you fail in that purpose, you will be disciplined until you can remember/learn. If you succeed in your purpose though, you will be rewarded appropriately. (Sometimes spankings are for GOOD girls!) I would prefer that you find personal gratification in fulfilling your duties, but that is not required and can be trained at a later time if desired. Understand that my interests, needs, and desires are paramount and you should expect to be available to me at my whim, whenever, wherever, and however I choose. With that said, I understand that level of availability is a "perfect world' scenerio. We all know that the mundane aspects of real life can interfere with the best laid plans/desires and I am open to discussion of various levels of management based on what you are looking for. I prefer to keep my BDSM related activities private for the most part as they are an intimacy shared between myself and my partner, but that does not rule out certain subtleties in public or around close friends. I believe that the dynamic between partners in a D/s relationship and the bond that developes between them as trust is established and built is critical to the long lasting success of the relationship, regardless of the type of situation (from loving bedroom only Master/slave to 24/7 micromanaged TPE). Knowledge is power and I strive to know my partner intimately; their goals and desires, what motivates them (both positive and negative), and what drives them to those toe curling body shaking orgasms (amongst other things). I thoroughly enjoy training so your level of BDSM experience does not matter and I prefer to keep my partner in optimum condition (i.e. permenant damage is a hard limit). That's not to say your bottom wont be sore/bruised from time to time, especially if you're a naughty, disobedient little girl. In all the years I have explored BDSM, I have learned much about myself, what I enjoy, and where my limits are. That does not mean I am closed to new ideas or activities or pushing the envelope so to speak, but if you are a switch, please understand that subbing simply does nothing for me. I do have a bit of a sadistic streak so you should be prepared for that (and hopefully enjoy it too). I have utilized the interets section of this profile to list some of the BDSM activities I enjoy to give viewers a comparison point to their own interests. This is not an all inclusive list but it should suffice to convey the basics. I also enjoy talking shop so I am open to discussing similar interests with anyone. I have many interests outside of the BDSM world and enjoy revealing those over the course of a regular conversation.
SettianoMinuit
 
 Age: 39
  California