People looking for love...

I like to browse.  I like to browse and hope that people will respond to the messages I send out, the list of things I like to do, and what few pictures I feel comfortable putting up.

The more I browse, the more I see people, who are probably genuinely curious about whatever lifestyle we all partake in, using this site to find lifelong romance.  Now, I could understand if you already were full up into kink, with a long list of what you know you want, but being curious, and thinking you'd be better off here than any of those commercial sites for love, seems a bit odd.

I think it is like throwing a fresh steak to a pack of rather hungry wolves, and I think so many of those fresh steaks are disappointed when the response they get isn't the response they were looking for.

Now, I appreciate all their sparkly eyed pictures, revealing clothes, and big smiles, but when they're suspended from their tits, with a magic wand stuffed up to their cervix, do you/they look back and wonder "Aside from watching him tie me up, and push that into me, how the hell did I get here, and when do I get to try some cake!?"

I'm not sure what happens when one creates a journal post, when nobody is seeking our your profile, but perhaps sending some letters into the ether will grab some eyes to my profile.  So, to be honest, I, and many guys on CM, are here for play.  We are constantly bombarded with things we can't have, and just want to let out a little bit of a dominant streak on a few women who love to submit.  I enjoy finding women who are open to try things, who discover that when clips are placed on their lips, that it brings a different kind of pleasure, that they like it, and they want it a lot more.

The most encouraging are those women who take it upon themselves, after their first meeting, to go buy a closet full of rope, whips, clamps and toys, so when we have our daliance, I don't have to arrive with a bag full of supplies from my shop.

Of course, as a guy, my inbox is almost always empty, and I find myself jealous of women and the fact that their inbox must be full of men who really desire to please them, and the amount of choice they have.

And I'm really really grateful  when those women who visit my profile, and then take a chance on me.  I think that most of them come back begging for more is a good sign, but so many of these situations are so fleeting, I'd love if more women took that chance.

Talk about a ramble...