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I seek 2 things in a partner; sexual compatability and personal chemistry. I do not consider either to be of higher importance than the other. Any woman who wants to judge her man's sexuality does not want to know or love the man she has. If you bore me or I find you embarrassing I'll probably use you but I'll never want you.

I seek a friend in all of this mess we call life. Friend, for those of you who do not know, does not mean a relationship where I stifle you in anyway or you stifle me in anyway. We are free to be us. Ergo, the whole sexual chemistry/personal chemistry thing I started all of this off with.

Love is a funny word. I love my parents dearly. I love my children in ways I could never fathom before I had them. I have never known love like either of these with any woman. If you expect love to happen in 3 weeks, it will not. Obsession is not love. Infatuation is not love. I don't need love in order to be sexual. I won't disguise infatuation with love in order to get into your pants or to tie you up and whip you. I'll simply tell it like it is... doesn't add to my popularity. If love is a code word for "financial security", do not be in touch. Lastly regarding love, I have a few friends I have had since I was a very small child. All of them are male. I love them with all my heart and would never do anything to hurt them, disrespect them, ruin the relationship in any way shape or form. I am not gay yet I love a few friends for life. THIS is what I seek with a woman. This love was developed through continued and repeated good times while sharing the things we loved to do (read that as common interests). That I love these people just happened. I didn't try to do it. I didn't expect it. It was just the by-product of respect and being ourselves. I need this with a woman. Don't know if it really is possible but I see the glass as half full.

If the word "friend" is used by you as a sexual repellent, do not be in touch. If friendship is quite special to you and you would love to be sexual with your best friend, be in touch. If your profile is all flowery and goes into great detail regarding your "gift of submission", do not be in touch. your gift is no better than mine and at least my profile acknowledges their are 2 gifts being given. If you believe respect must be earned, do not be in touch. I conduct my life in such a way as to show respect to all until you disrespect me. I seek only those who conduct their lives in the same manner.

I am honest to a fault which causes many people to dislike me. I could care less as the truth is the truth and we all must deal with our truth. Only the truly immature and irresponsible decide to kill the messenger as opposed to responsibly changing the message they put out. The truth just is.

I read alot of profiles and honestly I do not believe 90% of the women on here could even spell the word "submissive" let alone even be submissive. Talking the talk is easy. Wanting to feel submissive is admirable and desired but is usually a feeling you ladies reserve for your alone time and does me no good what-so-ever. Actually subverting your will to the will of another, apparently, is a whole nother story most of you have never had read to you, judging by the things I see in profiles.

In conclusion, if you seek a real man and you wish to bathe in your femininity and submission, I am the man for you. If you seek real friendship, I am the man for you. If you seek someone you can trust to be honest, as long as you fit this prodile, I am the man for you. If you seek the hottest sexual relationship you could ever imagine to come to life for real, I am the man for you. There are very few kinks in which I will not engage. I consider it to be an act of love to beat the shit out of a pain slut. By the same token, I don't really seek a pain slut. But if the personal chemistry is there it would be my extreme pleasure to keep you in constant pain and give you what you need. Please take note of my likes and dislikes and hard limits. I will reveal what I am into there and you'll know by what I "live for" if we are sexually compatible. Personal chemistry just kinda happens... one of those mysteries of life, I suppose. I am trying to solve the mystery of long lasting companionship by being brutally honest in this profile. All of those who see things my way will flatter me if they show interest in me. All others, I leave to your miserable selfish lives.
NaughtySub28
 
 Age: 32
 Lemoore, California